Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Focus on the chicks.. fine.Strelok said:I heard the top dogs of euroland are considering to kick the Greece out of the euroland.
No big surprise that greek economy is so messed up, I read on the newspaper that there female unmarried relatives of municipal employee were entitled to some kind of salary and other stuff like that.
The gov employee were some kind of mafia and the gov was some kind of big octopus holding money everywhere, hope Im not confusing.
Sounds like the United States.Danger said:An economy mainly of distributors, but few producers.![]()
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I was being sarcastic. It is my opinion that this could end the euro.r0cky said:SLIGHTLY negative impact? Try 10% drop overnight, and further in the long term. The banks around the world are already slidding because of the probability of a Greek default.
Its a catch 22 situation, because if Greece decides to implement the emasures necessary to prevent a default, the country will go into a civil war.
The united states is estimated to have the energy equivalent of shale gas (Methane) to oil in Saudi Arabia. There is likely more. We are creating jobs in Pennsylvania, Louisiana, Texas to the tune of 30,000 + positions. We also have access to domestic petroleum products. Some estimate we can survive on what we have for hundreds of years. Even if our monetary system sucks ( which it does), the united states has enough energy for a long time. That counts for everything. It doesn't matter what happens to our stupid paper system, as long as we can keep the lights on, keep the planes in the air, we aren't going anywhere.Kerpal said:I sure hope you're right, but I don't have a lot of hope. I feel like this country is on its last legs economically.
His not right, he is a 'know all' on markets and trading, yet knows very little.Kerpal said:I sure hope you're right, but I don't have a lot of hope. I feel like this country is on its last legs economically.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Hmmmmmmmmmm, so the US is in for a boom period, despite being the largest energy consumer bar none, with trillions of dollars of debt, fiscal contraction to come and monetary expansion already as far as it can go, yet peripheral Europe is in trouble?Julius_Seizeher said:You are so full of sh!t.
Here is why Greece is failing: they try to consume without producing.
But no man and no nation can consume that which they have not produced.
So now they are the first socialized european country to go begging for handouts. You can build a mountain of academic jargon to rationalize anything, but it doesn't change reality: you cannot consume that which has not been produced. A man and a nation can survive in only one of two ways: by means of its own independent effort or as a parasite fed by the effort of others.
Food does not fall into your mouth from clouds, gasoline does not flow in rivers to your backyard, and nuclear reactors do not grow like mushrooms in the forest. Production comes before distribution-or there is nothing to distribute.
Nope, we still make weapons for people to buy.Alle_Gory said:Sounds like the United States.
You mean like the United States. Most of the production is being outsourced. What remains is corn and some limited agriculture, movies and weapons.Julius_Seizeher said:Here is why Greece is failing: they try to consume without producing.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Gaucho said:What are you talking about?
CDS market are pricing in a high percentage of default. But this 'default' will only be technical in nature to ensure those who hold CDS are paid and hedging cover in such markets remain relevent.
This 'default' only being technical in nature, means whilst Moodys and the rating agencies will classify it as a default, it will only be an extension of maturities. I.e. the private sector will extend loans to Greece. It is already all factored in, no harm done.
The immediate harm is if the Greek government don't pass the austerity package this week, meanting the default won't be technical in nature, it will be full blown (yet no doubt short-term measures to fund the shortfall in Greek government liquidity will be bought forward by the EU and IMF anyways).
I actually think Mayweather is looking at this as a tune-up and is serious finally about making the Pac fight. Hopefully Mayweather doesn't look rusty and the fight is made, because other than an old, rusty Mayweather, Ortiz doesn't have a chance.StevieD said:What do you think of Mayweather vs Ortiz?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.