Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
A good observation, Quick. Nowadays , I am reading Nietzsche's "Thus Spoke the Zahartrusta" and I must Confess that I am deeply impressed by his theory of "übermensch"(overman). I haven't finished the book yet but it is very destructive to the common understanding of "virtues".They say that "behind every great man is a great woman", but in reality it's the woman you didn't get that often has the most effect on your life.
Just because when you treat a woman like a princess and put her on a pedastal, she invariably loses all respect for you, doesn't mean that you should go to the opposite extreme and expect the opposite result.Originally posted by ismo
When you behave a lady as she is very precious and very valuable, as she is the only lady for you on the world, she will behave like a dog to you. And this is when Nietzsche's quote becomes meaningful.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
This is why I think more people should read works by foreign authors in said authors' native languages.Originally posted by ismo
Here is a good saying:
"Are you going to your women? Prepare your whip!"
F.W.Nietzsche
Originally Written by Nietzsche in Also Sprach Zarathustra: Ein Buch für Alle und Keinen [Bonus points to Blaaaaat. - VN], Erster Teil: Von Alten und Jungen Weiblein:
«Du gehst zu Frauen? Vergiß die Peitsche nicht!»
(A little different, non?)Re-translated by Von Neuen:Originally Written by Nietzsche in Thus Spoke Zarathustra: A Book for Everyone and No One, Chapter One: On Old and Young Women:
"You're going amongst women? Don't forget [your/a] whip!"
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.