"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Great Tip on Building Confidence, Handling Rejection

Cowhead418

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I picked this up from another board. I have yet to try it out but I think it would work wonders. For those of you worried about approaching or being rejected (which is almost all of us), grab a buddy and try this trick:

Both of you approach as many chicks as you want with the intention of getting their #s, but here's the twist: for every rejection, you score one point. Whomever has more points at the end of "the game" is paid 20 bucks by the loser (or whatever amount you decide on). By doing this, you find yourself in a win-win situation. You get rejected, you score one point and get closer to winning some cash, or you get a number, which is also great.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Doggystyle

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Good idea

Or you could get the girls numbers and just tell your friend "sigh! i got rejected again, woe in me....£££ please!" win win!

Although I hate lying and always come clean almost straight away
 
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