"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Great Tip on Building Confidence, Handling Rejection

Cowhead418

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I picked this up from another board. I have yet to try it out but I think it would work wonders. For those of you worried about approaching or being rejected (which is almost all of us), grab a buddy and try this trick:

Both of you approach as many chicks as you want with the intention of getting their #s, but here's the twist: for every rejection, you score one point. Whomever has more points at the end of "the game" is paid 20 bucks by the loser (or whatever amount you decide on). By doing this, you find yourself in a win-win situation. You get rejected, you score one point and get closer to winning some cash, or you get a number, which is also great.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Doggystyle

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Good idea

Or you could get the girls numbers and just tell your friend "sigh! i got rejected again, woe in me....£££ please!" win win!

Although I hate lying and always come clean almost straight away
 
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