TempestNight
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What are some great and original second date ideas you guys have had besides the usual dinner, bowling, etc?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Great second date ideas?
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DonJuan_DeRosco
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Comedy clubs!
But really I try and fit 2 or 3 locations/activities per date.
But really I try and fit 2 or 3 locations/activities per date.
TempestNight
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Such as?DonJuan_DeRosco said:Comedy clubs!
But really I try and fit 2 or 3 locations/activities per date.
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Tried searching through articles and tips, there isn't really much on it. There's mention of mini cart, amusement park, etc, but you can't do any of those in this winter season.
So any inputs from anyone?
So any inputs from anyone?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Audiophile
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What do you like doing? Dancing? Listening to live music? Bring her in your world and do something fun, or just grab some drinks and bring her back like runner said.
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This is after 2nd date but me and my old girlfriend used to go to a local arcade and just mess around on the games there.
Bearing in mind we were both 17 at the time though.
We'd start with bowling, then we'd do quasar, then move on to the games that didn't need booking in advance, pool, air hockey, interactive racing games like those skiing things you stand on, those electrick pole things you had to hold for as long as possible.
It cost a fair amount of money I have to say but once I'd paid for the first few things she would insist on chipping in.
And it was a lot of fun just messing around playing games and chatting, real ice breakers.
We used to do that quite a lot. Anyone know if that stuff would still work? (I'm 21)
Bearing in mind we were both 17 at the time though.
We'd start with bowling, then we'd do quasar, then move on to the games that didn't need booking in advance, pool, air hockey, interactive racing games like those skiing things you stand on, those electrick pole things you had to hold for as long as possible.
It cost a fair amount of money I have to say but once I'd paid for the first few things she would insist on chipping in.
And it was a lot of fun just messing around playing games and chatting, real ice breakers.
We used to do that quite a lot. Anyone know if that stuff would still work? (I'm 21)