TempestNight
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What are some great and original second date ideas you guys have had besides the usual dinner, bowling, etc?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Great second date ideas?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DonJuan_DeRosco
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Comedy clubs!
But really I try and fit 2 or 3 locations/activities per date.
But really I try and fit 2 or 3 locations/activities per date.
TempestNight
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Such as?DonJuan_DeRosco said:Comedy clubs!
But really I try and fit 2 or 3 locations/activities per date.
TempestNight
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Tried searching through articles and tips, there isn't really much on it. There's mention of mini cart, amusement park, etc, but you can't do any of those in this winter season.
So any inputs from anyone?
So any inputs from anyone?
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Audiophile
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What do you like doing? Dancing? Listening to live music? Bring her in your world and do something fun, or just grab some drinks and bring her back like runner said.
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This is after 2nd date but me and my old girlfriend used to go to a local arcade and just mess around on the games there.
Bearing in mind we were both 17 at the time though.
We'd start with bowling, then we'd do quasar, then move on to the games that didn't need booking in advance, pool, air hockey, interactive racing games like those skiing things you stand on, those electrick pole things you had to hold for as long as possible.
It cost a fair amount of money I have to say but once I'd paid for the first few things she would insist on chipping in.
And it was a lot of fun just messing around playing games and chatting, real ice breakers.
We used to do that quite a lot. Anyone know if that stuff would still work? (I'm 21)
Bearing in mind we were both 17 at the time though.
We'd start with bowling, then we'd do quasar, then move on to the games that didn't need booking in advance, pool, air hockey, interactive racing games like those skiing things you stand on, those electrick pole things you had to hold for as long as possible.
It cost a fair amount of money I have to say but once I'd paid for the first few things she would insist on chipping in.
And it was a lot of fun just messing around playing games and chatting, real ice breakers.
We used to do that quite a lot. Anyone know if that stuff would still work? (I'm 21)