"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Great retro video about how men will overwhelmingly help an attractive woman needing assistance

MatureDJ

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my opinion: These men are BetaHelping to get in her pants. :rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I sometimes hold the door for them, but then again, I do that for dudes and ladies. It's just how I was raised. It's rare I'd stop just because it's a lady. The other day driving in Westport, CT, a deer popped out of no where and the suv went right into it. The deer was DOA. I did pull over and see if the driver was okay. The front of the Jeep was damaged and smoking. It was a 18/19 y.o. girl. She was just laughing and in shock. I asked if she'd like me to call the cops, she said no, she's calling her dad. I said okay and I walked back to my truck. I would had done that for either gender.
 

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in fact I go out of my way not to help women, unless it's an emergent situation. I'm RickTheToadII
 

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You know when a bunch of people are walking into a place at the same time and someone realizes its probably best to hold the door open for everyone, you know like one of those split second decisions, you know to help with everyone tripping over each other. We'll I did and 2 women deliberately made an effort to show off the wedding rings and say they were married.
 
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