"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Great retro video about how men will overwhelmingly help an attractive woman needing assistance

MatureDJ

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my opinion: These men are BetaHelping to get in her pants. :rolleyes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I sometimes hold the door for them, but then again, I do that for dudes and ladies. It's just how I was raised. It's rare I'd stop just because it's a lady. The other day driving in Westport, CT, a deer popped out of no where and the suv went right into it. The deer was DOA. I did pull over and see if the driver was okay. The front of the Jeep was damaged and smoking. It was a 18/19 y.o. girl. She was just laughing and in shock. I asked if she'd like me to call the cops, she said no, she's calling her dad. I said okay and I walked back to my truck. I would had done that for either gender.
 

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in fact I go out of my way not to help women, unless it's an emergent situation. I'm RickTheToadII
 

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You know when a bunch of people are walking into a place at the same time and someone realizes its probably best to hold the door open for everyone, you know like one of those split second decisions, you know to help with everyone tripping over each other. We'll I did and 2 women deliberately made an effort to show off the wedding rings and say they were married.
 
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