"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Great questions (i need to learn some)

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Hi all, I'm new here. Anyway, I've scanned the Bible and couldn't find exactly what I'm looking for, or not enough of it at least. I want some great questions that will really let me know something about the person, or at least make them think. I often have trouble thinking of things to say, especially when I see a girl a couple of times in one week. I basically ask "so what'd you do yesterday?", "any plans for the rest of the week?", and that's it. Usually the answers don't give me many follow up questions either. Anyway, I want some specific questions that will really get the other person to open up, maybe some I can have fiendishly clever answers prepared for if she throws them back at me. I know the basics so please no "you have to listen to what she says and ask about it" or "ask open ended questions". Good advice, but for 1, this girl is unusual in that she doesn't run her mouth for 30 minutes when I ask "how was your day?", and 2, I just really need some solid examples to get me going. I'd also appreciate links to any useful websites with this kind of info. (just tips on making good conversation, not necesarrily in a romantic situation) Oh I also know to ask questions that focus on feelings and emotions, but some good examples of those would be really helpful too. Thanks all!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How about do you spit or swallow?

You a virgin?

You got the hiv?

Do you do anal?

Do you like small weiners?

Will you slap my ass and scream "Francis, take the pie out of my oven"!!
 

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The "DJ Bible" has a whole section on conversaions. And you couldn't find anything in there to help you?

In any case, here's a line that might help.

"Where would you rather be right now?"
 

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Francisco d'Anconia, thanks, that's just the kind of thing I'm looking for.

Survivor, yea I mean the "DJ Bible" of course, and yes i did find some helpful stuff, such as the cube game... kinda a similar idea.

But I want more, like I just thought of one good one I heard somewhere: "What kind of traits do you value in friends?" "What about lovers?" Questions like that really tell you something about a person if you get honest answers.

That's the kind of specific stuff I'm looking for.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Read this thread;

personality questions game
Funny I was going to repost that game! Thanks.

To the poster of this thread:

Just take an active interest in finding out all you can about "her". dig into her lifestory.

Really dig in. Learn all of her secrets and you will have no problems with your mouthpiece!
 
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