"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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great prop for peacocking but dont know what to say when a girl compliments it

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Ok i got a really nice watch. I bought it for about $3,000. it has a bunch of diamonds its basically bling bling. Im 24 so still young, in college getting my masters etc. when i go out to bars wherever a girl will compliment me on my watch or say let me see that etc. 2 nights ago a hb7 (she was pretty drunk i think) came right up to me (gave me heavy eye contact earlier in the night) and grabbed my hand to look at my watch. another time i was with my friend and he introduced me to some hbs we went out to the bars and a couple of them told my friend they really liked my watch. one of them later on during the night came up to me and was like wow your watch is so nice and went on about sh!t. another night my friend was talking to his hb friend and he was like would u fvck him for his watch? she was like let me see it i showed it to her and she was like i like your style. And I was in Vegas playing craps and some hb about 5 minutes later after coming to the table was like do i know you from somewhere?

I stick out like crazy with that watch. I typically say yea its cool, or i just simply say thanks followed by me complimenting them on something of theirs. What is the proper thing to say cause recently i have had a lot of encounters and get tongue tied. the watch is an automatically a DHV.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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'You're watch is really nice'

'Yeah and it's haunted too.'

'Really?'

'NO you idiot, a haunted watch whoever heard of such a thing hahaha!'
 

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Next time just follow up with "Wait till you see my (insert)." Car, house, boat...

or

"Ehh, I should've worn the rolex."

-E.Nigma
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Or treat it like it's nice, but not a huge thing: "Yeah, I had a good month and treated myself to something nice. It also tells the time."
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I love it, people spend so much money on things and even when it works in attracting attention, they have no idea how to use it. Just say that it pretty cool the type of things you find in a box of Cocoa Pebbles (or in a McDonald's Happy Meal if you like fast food). Either way, don't let it go to waste after spending so much money on it. BTW, nice watch.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I love it, people spend so much money on things and even when it works in attracting attention, they have no idea how to use it. Just say that it pretty cool the type of things you find in a box of Cocoa Pebbles (or in a McDonald's Happy Meal if you like fast food). Either way, don't let it go to waste after spending so much money on it. BTW, nice watch.
Nice.

"God..."

*shakes head slowly*

"The things you find in cereal boxes these days..."
 

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Just say "Thank You"

Trying to brag or any other similar type of behavior will just "LYV" - Lower Your Value.

You've heard it before, so act like it. :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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haha yea the first time a chick grabbed my arm the first words out of my mouth were "yeah its real" then i was like fvck. the hb that grabbed my arm last night i said to her oh yea you like it i got it for $25.
 

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Reminds me of a pickup line I heard (or maybe used? :crackup: kidding) once. Tell her its a magic, talking watch. put your wrist next to your ear for a second and get a WOW look on your face.

you: "It said you're not wearing any panties."

her: "thats not true!"

you: "oh crap! I'm an hour early."
 

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first off your from cali so im surpised this is coming from someone from the most materialistic place on earth. but yea man i know where youre coming from. Im a spoiled kid seriously though. my parents make some decent dough so i have a cusion just in case. yea im not a baller like my parents but still im young and like nice sh!t. even if i had a million dollars in my pocket a ch!ck what not even see 1% of that for a while. so i guess either way they will be disappointed according to you. Why do i wanna buy something nice when im 50 with kids? When i wear my watch espically at bars if im wearing a long sleeve shirt which i do often since its freezing over here the watch is covered half way under my shirt for most of the night once in a while ill flash it but not all night long. if im wearing a short sleeve shirt then i have no choice. But ive gotten chicks w/out the watch before and wout my car. I like materialistic sh!t though. Its not just for the girls but for me also. I work out like 6 days a week. I do it 1. for myself to be healthy 2. To look good. I bought a brand new benz 2 years ago. I bought 1. Cause i like cars and they are really reliable, great service and the car runs really smooth and it looks cool. 2. to pull chicks also.

Basically i bought my car 1 week after i broke up with my ex. I needed a new one also cause my car was a money pit. so i was p!ssed and wanted to cheer my self up and got a pretty good deal. with no intentions of getting back with my ex she called me one night cause some sh!t went down. a couple days later we talked i was like yea i got a new car nonchalantly not even bragging or anything didnt even mention what kind it was. couple days later she calls again cause she was going through hard times told her im picking up my car if u wanna come. Were talking and then they pull my car around and the next thing you know her arm is around my arm asking me to stay at her house that night (we were together for a year before i had the car) that sh!t was classic. then we were together for another year and broke up. anyways im just trying to say im not desperate like you think. i dont expect this sh!t to take me the distance it gets to a point were it wont matter what i have.
but i like the sh!t gives me even higher confidence (i know im good looking, educated, straight head on my shoulders just trying to get the whole package atleast what i see as one in my eyes) and it also gets the ch!cks so why not?

have you seen real diamonds high quality v low quality. theres a huge difference. you think a movado that cost 500 dollars is going to get the same reaction as my watch? no way. i see dudes with movados that try to floss so i decided im going to seperate myself from them and be a couple steps higher. a girl would go up to a guy with a movado and be like wow nice watch cause thats probably the nicest watch theyve seen. they see mine its a whole different reaction. i see chicks staring at my sh!t all day long out of the corner of my eye i dont really see them glaring at movados or whatever on other dudes you cant floss a 500 dollar watch with little or no diamonds like a 3000 dollar watch with high quality diamonds that bling like crazy. its just like buying cubics if you arent going to get the real thing then theres no point. when you see dudes with big diamonds in the ears no that is desperate trying to look like a baller with 30 dollar earrings from macys
 

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her:nice watch
you: ya its state of the art!
her:really?
you: ya it can talk to me telepathically.......do you know what its saying now?
her:what?
you: your not wearing any panties...*Smile*.
her: yes i am wearing panties!!
you: *hit the watch* this damn thing must be an hour fast.
 

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aix237 said:
have you seen real diamonds high quality v low quality. theres a huge difference. you think a movado that cost 500 dollars is going to get the same reaction as my watch? no way. i see chicks staring at my sh!t all day long out of the corner of my eye i dont really see them glaring at movados or whatever on other dudes you cant floss a 500 dollar watch with little or no diamonds like a 3000 dollar watch with high quality diamonds that bling like crazy. its just like buying cubics if you arent going to get the real thing then theres no point. when you see dudes with big diamonds in the ears no that is desperate trying to look like a baller with 30 dollar earrings from macys
Diamonds in a $3k watch? Sorry dude, but either the movement or the diamonds are cheap. My bet is on the movement, since it's hidden... My current watch is in a plain stainless steel case... and cost a whole lot more than $3k. The rose gold version cost double again. The diamond version... well, I think they start at over 100 grand when new.

check out http://www.patek.com for more info.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I had the lady read me the specs on the diamonds before i bought it. Diamonds are colorless good clarity and cut. basically high quality. The movement might be cheap but that part doesnt really bother me. what is so great about a good movement?
 

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A guy walks into a bar. Bartender looks at his Rolex and asks, "Why the hell do you need such an expensive watch?" The guy looks at the bartender and says, "Because I can't drive my Porsche into the bar." :cheer:

Yes, just say, "thank you". After a few years, you'll have had so many compliments on it and you'll get so sick of talking about it that you'll just want to switch topics.
 

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IF you got the cash, get yourself some designer hater vision. I got a cartier,prada and 2 chanel frames, they are killers at the clubs.
 

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I keep telling myself I'll buy a movado, but honestly, might as well save till Rolex, quality and durability right thurr.

I'm with ATX. Good watches are 15k+

And NEVER buy Jacob, no matter what rappers say.
 

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Aix, I'm not joining the PHD-pull him down- crew but I don't believe that a watch with diamonds will cost 3k. My earring with only one stone cost that much and my watch with no diamond is close to that price. Get it checked(varified) independently to make sure it’s not rip-off, if you got it on a downtown Asian street....duh!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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