"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Great openers if you travel...

Guitar_Whizz

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Hello guys, I'm currently doing some travelling around the UK, and I've had some good success with a few openers I came up with, so I thought I'd share them with you.

OPENER 1, if you're staying in a Youth Hostel or Hotel etc
Just open with 'Hi...where are you from?'. Start with a bit of eye contact and a smile if you wish. This is the standard 'travellers' opener, and can be followed up with any natural, improvised conversation about your travels. Show some interest in the people you're talking to about their travels, let them talk and open up to you, and it's as simple as that.

OPENER 2, for girls in the daytime or girls in clubs etc
I discovered this one by accident while in Skegness a few weeks back. If you're new to a town or city, just walk up to any girl (or group) and say "Hi, can I ask you a quick question....are people in (name of town/city) friendly?". In most cases you'll get a positive response, then just follow up with "the reason I ask is I'm here on holiday for a few days/weeks and I just wondered what the place was like....". From there just improvise some natural game, and you're in!

Hope these were useful, give them a try when you're next visiting somewhere and you'll be pleasantly surprised!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wallycleaver

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This might be news to you, but in most parts of the world people don't speak fluent English. You will get a strange look and the words, "I be so Sorry. I speak not good English."

Hostel people are dirty and smelly.
 

Guitar_Whizz

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wallycleaver said:
This might be news to you, but in most parts of the world people don't speak fluent English. You will get a strange look and the words, "I be so Sorry. I speak not good English."

Hostel people are dirty and smelly.
Wow, your ignorance shows through, you retard.

Where have all the decent posters gone from this site? A few years back this site was fantastic, now it's full of immature posters like that.

It will be time for me to leave this place and move on to better things....and rightly so.
 

Deadly_Assassin

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Guitar whizz, wally has a point but only in certain situations. Don't be so hard on him man. He is only sharing his prespective because of the experiences he must have had in the past.

I sometimes pretend I am from overseas and always go upto random girls to ask them what are some good clubs to go to...

If you are just walking around the city during the day, you can ask about good places to eat, look at art, romantic places. You can even pretend to be lost and ask for directions...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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