Guitar_Whizz
Master Don Juan
Hello guys, I'm currently doing some travelling around the UK, and I've had some good success with a few openers I came up with, so I thought I'd share them with you.
OPENER 1, if you're staying in a Youth Hostel or Hotel etc
Just open with 'Hi...where are you from?'. Start with a bit of eye contact and a smile if you wish. This is the standard 'travellers' opener, and can be followed up with any natural, improvised conversation about your travels. Show some interest in the people you're talking to about their travels, let them talk and open up to you, and it's as simple as that.
OPENER 2, for girls in the daytime or girls in clubs etc
I discovered this one by accident while in Skegness a few weeks back. If you're new to a town or city, just walk up to any girl (or group) and say "Hi, can I ask you a quick question....are people in (name of town/city) friendly?". In most cases you'll get a positive response, then just follow up with "the reason I ask is I'm here on holiday for a few days/weeks and I just wondered what the place was like....". From there just improvise some natural game, and you're in!
Hope these were useful, give them a try when you're next visiting somewhere and you'll be pleasantly surprised!
OPENER 1, if you're staying in a Youth Hostel or Hotel etc
Just open with 'Hi...where are you from?'. Start with a bit of eye contact and a smile if you wish. This is the standard 'travellers' opener, and can be followed up with any natural, improvised conversation about your travels. Show some interest in the people you're talking to about their travels, let them talk and open up to you, and it's as simple as that.
OPENER 2, for girls in the daytime or girls in clubs etc
I discovered this one by accident while in Skegness a few weeks back. If you're new to a town or city, just walk up to any girl (or group) and say "Hi, can I ask you a quick question....are people in (name of town/city) friendly?". In most cases you'll get a positive response, then just follow up with "the reason I ask is I'm here on holiday for a few days/weeks and I just wondered what the place was like....". From there just improvise some natural game, and you're in!
Hope these were useful, give them a try when you're next visiting somewhere and you'll be pleasantly surprised!