"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Great openers if you travel...

Guitar_Whizz

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Hello guys, I'm currently doing some travelling around the UK, and I've had some good success with a few openers I came up with, so I thought I'd share them with you.

OPENER 1, if you're staying in a Youth Hostel or Hotel etc
Just open with 'Hi...where are you from?'. Start with a bit of eye contact and a smile if you wish. This is the standard 'travellers' opener, and can be followed up with any natural, improvised conversation about your travels. Show some interest in the people you're talking to about their travels, let them talk and open up to you, and it's as simple as that.

OPENER 2, for girls in the daytime or girls in clubs etc
I discovered this one by accident while in Skegness a few weeks back. If you're new to a town or city, just walk up to any girl (or group) and say "Hi, can I ask you a quick question....are people in (name of town/city) friendly?". In most cases you'll get a positive response, then just follow up with "the reason I ask is I'm here on holiday for a few days/weeks and I just wondered what the place was like....". From there just improvise some natural game, and you're in!

Hope these were useful, give them a try when you're next visiting somewhere and you'll be pleasantly surprised!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wallycleaver

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This might be news to you, but in most parts of the world people don't speak fluent English. You will get a strange look and the words, "I be so Sorry. I speak not good English."

Hostel people are dirty and smelly.
 

Guitar_Whizz

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wallycleaver said:
This might be news to you, but in most parts of the world people don't speak fluent English. You will get a strange look and the words, "I be so Sorry. I speak not good English."

Hostel people are dirty and smelly.
Wow, your ignorance shows through, you retard.

Where have all the decent posters gone from this site? A few years back this site was fantastic, now it's full of immature posters like that.

It will be time for me to leave this place and move on to better things....and rightly so.
 

Deadly_Assassin

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Guitar whizz, wally has a point but only in certain situations. Don't be so hard on him man. He is only sharing his prespective because of the experiences he must have had in the past.

I sometimes pretend I am from overseas and always go upto random girls to ask them what are some good clubs to go to...

If you are just walking around the city during the day, you can ask about good places to eat, look at art, romantic places. You can even pretend to be lost and ask for directions...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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