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Great, on my first date, and just have to run into my friends!

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I was just wondering, say I was out on a date with a girl, and I just happened to run into my friends. Of course, I have to introduce her to them, what would be the best thing to say. I know for sure that I don't want to say "This is my friend, Jen."


Basically, what I am saying is, What is the best way to introduce a woman that your dating, but not in a relationship with?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I knew someone was going to say that, but no, there is no Jen, I just put that name in there so it wouldnt be "Hi, this is my friend, hername.
 
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Originally posted by NismoAwan
I was just wondering, say I was out on a date with a girl, and I just happened to run into my friends. Of course, I have to introduce her to them, what would be the best thing to say. I know for sure that I don't want to say "This is my friend, Jen."


Basically, what I am saying is, What is the best way to introduce a woman that your dating, but not in a relationship with?
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serious case of AFC over thinking a small situatution
 
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"This is the girl I'm gonna f*ck tonight".
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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"this is the cutie i told you about...."

turn to her

"whats your name again?"

and then later tell her you were joking. say you remembered her name but that she wasnt the cutie you told your friends about.
 
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Seriously, some of you on this site have to think for yourselves every once in awhile. Do you really have to come on these boards for very little things like this?
 
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Just a side note. Running into your friends can be the best thing as then you come with instance "refferences on your resume" as she sees you are not some lonely creep.
 
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definently a good thing..

i'd say, keep the meeting short and sweet.
don't let it slide into awkwardness.

and when Mr. Mystery II said "this is jen" he was doing the same thing as you.
rather then "this is my friend, jen" "this is jen" doesn't give her a label as a friend..
its going to be fairly obvious what ur intentions with her are you're friends aren't that stupid..
she can't pull some **** like "why did u say i was ur friend instead of..... whatever" girls do stupid **** alot..

"this is jen" or "this is sally" or whatever is perfect..

- note : don't call jen, sally.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Re: Re: Great, on my first date, and just have to run into my friends!

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serious case overthinking a small situatution
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"Hey, this is ****". Plus it's instant social proof.
 
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The best response is the first one you received. Just introduce a girl and dont add friend at the end. i.e. "This is Skanky McSpreadlegs"
 
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