Great Job! You got the girl! She likes you...but...why are you losing interest in her

[Eric Smith]

It happens because the challenge is gone. You know that you could just go right up to her, ask her out, and she says yes. This is why I always enjoy pursuing the high level attractive girls because the challenge is there. She could be one of those girls that would go out with a man who has enough of a pair to ask her out. Sometimes you have to have at least 6 figures. Its all in the challenge.

I personally love how HB9-10s really get pissed when I say, "You know, HB, we will never be anything more than friends." It throws them in for a spin! The reason is because for every one person like me there are 1000 that would be willing to cut off ties with family, friends, and empty their bank accounts for her. They act pissed and then its funny to see their reaction. You are already counting her out! Then its even funnier to see how that HB tries to prove that she is worthy material.

Playing games is fun but you need to do this with many girls, if you just rely on one, she may play back and you are now frustrated. Its a thin line between insanity and curiosity.

 

[becker]

Originally posted by Eric Smith


Then its even funnier to see how that HB tries to prove that she is worthy material.

This statement is a bit of a stretch for me. There's no way in the world an HB9 or 10 will be trying to prove she's worthy of you unless you're Tom Cruise or something. Personally, if I had an HB9 or 10 going after me, I don't think I'll be trying to look for "funny" things.

Furthermore, like I said before, I've never lost interest in a HB who I was interested in who was interested in me just because she gave in to my advances. That's like some sort of ego-centered myth.

 

[Slickster]

Yes the "Chase" is exciting.

However it seems to me that it is very childish and .... quite feminine!

Women should be chasing men.

Boys chase girls.

 

[becker]

If Eric Smith is really 18, then that probably explains his perspective...

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by Slickster
Yes the "Chase" is exciting.

However it seems to me that it is very childish and .... quite feminine!

Women should be chasing men.

Boys chase girls.

Im sorry but i am not into LTR's and settling down

quite feminine? r u kiddin me?

woman generally wanna be swept off their feet and live in romance

BTW you contradict yourself several time

 

[seeVip]

I'm down with drixsa. And im sometimes also different in another way I usually like girls who are a 7.5 than a 9, like something cute but then i grow to like them more and more, compared to a 9 where shesd almost perfect and u keep trying to pick out her imperfections and u get sick of it. Unless u get pure HB9 with total sexy fun personality.

 

[seeVip]

Think about it guys . With the chasem u play through all the mind games heightens yours and her interest level, djs just keep hers above yours (but not too high or you will get sick of her)

Which is feels better, when u need a piss and just go piss, or when u cant find a place to piss and you're just about to burst then you find a urinal in time and let it all out.?

 

[becker]

To me, it's not about motivating myself to like a girl. If that's what it takes to get yourself to be into a girl, then I think you need to look for a better girl. An HB9 is an HB9 no matter how difficult she is to get, so if it comes easy, I won't complain.

 

[Slickster]

Originally posted by drixsa
Im sorry but i am not into LTR's and settling down

quite feminine? r u kiddin me?

woman generally wanna be swept off their feet and live in romance

BTW you contradict yourself several time

LTR's who brought that up?

Feminine? Yes if you were a man you'd be doing other things besides chasing women and getting all messed up in their head games. "Does she like me? I hope not cuz then I won't like her anymore. Then I'll have to go find someone who doesn't like me so I can like them." Lame. Childish and lame. Sorry.

Contradict myself? When?

 

[DarkfalconIV]

It's not that you 'have her'. You pedasteled her. can we say NExt.

those we love the most,are to those we say the least. English Proverb

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by Slickster
LTR's who brought that up?

Feminine? Yes if you were a man you'd be doing other things besides chasing women and getting all messed up in their head games. "Does she like me? I hope not cuz then I won't like her anymore. Then I'll have to go find someone who doesn't like me so I can like them." Lame. Childish and lame. Sorry.

Contradict? When?

Do i go around all chasing woman?
did i ever say that??...NO

Do i get all messed up in their head games?
Did i ever say that?...NO

you are putting such words into my mouth

woman arent ususally the ones that loose interest once they have a man's attension. they usually have more interest towards starting a relationship. so thats where the LTRs come in

the truth is i dont get attached to women. some are cool, some are hot, a few are both.

but i am more likely to be interested in a woman i dont know or am not sure if i can pickup. there is more excitement there then say a girl i know i have sex with. Pure Fact.

Why do so many cheat on their spouse?? many reasons im sure but one definatley is that the excitement is gone and there is a rush when something or someone is new.

look at every men's or woman's magazine. on the cover of 19/20 titles there is an article based on how to meet new members of the oppoiste sex or something related to spicing up your sex life.

i am not going to apologize for picking up woman and not the other way around.

if woman approach you then props to you but i wasnt aware that it is such a horrible thing to pick up woman, actually i was coming to think that it was a suggested idea on this forum

 

[becker]

The ultimate goal in chasing a woman is to catch them. I would get tired of chasing and chasing and never catching. The sooner I catch them, the more I can move on to more interesting things, like getting to know them better.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by becker
The ultimate goal in chasing a woman is to catch them. I would get tired of chasing and chasing and never catching. The sooner I catch them, the more I can move on to more interesting things, like getting to know them better.

see this is a definition of how a guy who wants to be in an LTR feels

dont get me wrong thats cool

but i find the average guy to be on a higher intellectual level and more interesting to talk to

dont get me wrong there are some real cool girls out there but they are few and far between

 

[Slickster]

Geez Drix!

Don't get all defensive. I'm not putting words in your mouth. It seems to be the feel of this thread. Everyone complaining that they lose interest in chicks that are too easy.

Well I bet there are hundreds of guys here who'd love to have that problem! So quit your whining all of you! How do you think the AFC loser who's never ever had any chick interested in him feels reading that crap? Its like flashing money in a poor man's face.

Being a challenge works. Its human nature. But to be a challenge and then change your mind once you get what you want is silly don't ya think? Its playing games like a little girl.

Believe what you will about this place Drixsa. But my goal in coming here is to be pursued by women not the other way around.

Peace

 

[Psycho`Sexual]

Ignore her.

In a situation like this, your best bet would be to ignore her, and let her IL level jump again.

This way, you can get back on your DJ feet some, while her IL wont dwindle away while you act AFCish.


Either way, from ignoring her, she will come to you, and you will get a nice surge in your itnerest because attraction attracts attraction.

 

[princelydeeds]

Originally posted by oreo_renegade
Well its not that.

She is attractive, I would say about a 7.5 right now.

She is sort of poor and doesnt dress in nice clothes, but if she fixed hair, and dressed in nice clothing she would jump to about 8.5 automatically.

It's not that Im not interested in her, its just that Im put off by the fact of not working for her.

I am still interested in her, but it seems like some of the fun is missing because usually i just enjoy playing the "game" and its like i'm a winner by default.

sort of takes out the value from the prize.

This whole post may be the most immature BS Ive read on here. This is simply a product of your age. I don't know how old you are but you sound very very young. There will be a time in your life in the not so distant future that, you will regret passing on a beautiful chick like this. Games are for kids and if you enjoy the games than that says something about your mentality. There is nothing better than a very simple woman. If you are turned off by the fact that she wants you, it says alot about how you feel about yourself. Does she have bad taste? Her only mistake is that she actually likes you. The logic boggles the mind. You sound like a little girl. I can't like her cause she likes me too much. Trust men evetually her like will level off to a normal amount. Women who aren't interested in you and start off as a$$holes only become bigger a$$holes.

I would love for a hottie to throw herself at em thats fun its easy and Im fgonna get what I truly want. I hate women who plsy games, trust me when I tell you the games will grow real old real soon.

Alot of young women go to school a little homely. Trust me when she goes home for xmas she'll get new clothes and come back with a whole new style. People often throw out there whole HS wardrobe after their first semster of college. Who cares what her clothes look like when they are lying on the floor in the dark?
You are throwing away what could really be a good thing. It is rare to find a good woman who is all about you. Don't waste your opportuinity. People come to this board to get women, you've got teh woman but you wanna throw her away cause she likes you? I just can't comprhend that logic.

 

[Jimbo2k]

Originally posted by princelydeeds
This whole post may be the most immature BS Ive read on here. This is simply a product of your age. I don't know how old you are but you sound very very young. There will be a time in your life in the not so distant future that, you will regret passing on a beautiful chick like this. Games are for kids and if you enjoy the games than that says something about your mentality. There is nothing better than a very simple woman. If you are turned off by the fact that she wants you, it says alot about how you feel about yourself. Does she have bad taste? Her only mistake is that she actually likes you. The logic boggles the mind. You sound like a little girl. I can't like her cause she likes me too much.

AGREED.
The first thing I thought when I read this post, before I read anyone elses responses was, this guy sounds like a little girl.

Dude, lets hope your not like this all the time. Sure, you can and should let this gal go, but hopefully this isnt who you are and what you're all about. If it is, quit messin with girl's emotions.