"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Great First Date, Not Sure What to Do? Could use some advice...

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I met this girl working out last Sunday, and I got her number. She texted me Monday, we talked on Tuesday, and went on a date Wednesday. She seemed to be having a great time, said she was having a great time, and also texted me after to tell me how much fun she had. Throughout our time texting/talking, she seemed nervous and interested.

I called her on Friday to see what she was doing Saturday/Sunday, not leaving a message. I sent her a text later to throw the idea of us getting together over the weekend past her, and she said "She was in Canada and would call me tomorrow."

She did not call or text me Saturday. On our date, she did mention that she may be taking a trip to see her sister and a friend from college this weekend, but that she was not sure if she was going.

What should I do? Should I wait and see if she calls? Call her today? Call her tomorrow? This girl is awesome, and I really do not want to blow it with her. I just want to know where I stand, as things seemed to be going smoothly.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wait it out. Dont go amog. Be cool and give her a call to set up another date like monday.
 
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That is what I was thinking. Monday is not too early a time?
 
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The ball's in her court now. If she doesn't call by the middle of this week (Tuesday or Wednesday), give it one more go. If flakes on you again or doesn't call you back....... NEXT!
 
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