"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Great First Date, Not Sure What to Do? Could use some advice...

frank1340

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I met this girl working out last Sunday, and I got her number. She texted me Monday, we talked on Tuesday, and went on a date Wednesday. She seemed to be having a great time, said she was having a great time, and also texted me after to tell me how much fun she had. Throughout our time texting/talking, she seemed nervous and interested.

I called her on Friday to see what she was doing Saturday/Sunday, not leaving a message. I sent her a text later to throw the idea of us getting together over the weekend past her, and she said "She was in Canada and would call me tomorrow."

She did not call or text me Saturday. On our date, she did mention that she may be taking a trip to see her sister and a friend from college this weekend, but that she was not sure if she was going.

What should I do? Should I wait and see if she calls? Call her today? Call her tomorrow? This girl is awesome, and I really do not want to blow it with her. I just want to know where I stand, as things seemed to be going smoothly.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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saminex

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wait it out. Dont go amog. Be cool and give her a call to set up another date like monday.
 

frank1340

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That is what I was thinking. Monday is not too early a time?
 

AKA FLEX

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The ball's in her court now. If she doesn't call by the middle of this week (Tuesday or Wednesday), give it one more go. If flakes on you again or doesn't call you back....... NEXT!
 
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