"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Graveyard shift

search1ng

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Hey guys,

Hey guys, I just wanted to get your thoughts on this job offer (without going too in-depth).

* Working the graveyard shift (11-7am, but if I can work faster, it'll finish faster).
* Paid per delivery (1.15) plus flat bonus 15. Can reasonably pace myself at (23-30 deliveries/hr).
* # of deliveries differ per day (80<X<150).

Also, how many of you were able to hold down a night-time, part-time job while attending uni? Keeping in mind I'm doing a pretty full-on degree (medical radiation science). I've never had to work at night before and was worried in regards to how this would affect my study habits/routine.

Thanks!

p.s. I live in Australia

edit: example of pay rate. 80 parcels. 20 parcels delivered/hour. pay rate 1.15 per parcel. 15 bonus.
80x1.15=92+15=107.
107/4.5 (30 minutes loading stock onto truck) = 23.80

20 parcel/hr is delivering @ a laid back pace. I'd imagine If i hauled ass and got used to everything, 25+ parcels an hour would be achievable.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah, I'm on trial run for 4 nights. First night was a breeze.

The money isn't bad right? It's definitely not a slackers job. Need to finish things asap to keep my rate up.

Wish I could just find a well paying part time, day job. Heh.
 

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Get a job in security, pays well and you sit around doing nothing (i.e. you can study).

I've done night work once in my life and I think I lost a few years of my life doing it I was so worn out. It was ok for a week or two, then I felt it, and as the months wore on, it got worse. Most people say you can either do it or you can't, I think I was one that can't. I have a cousin that does it, and he said it took him 2 years to get used to it.
 

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Don't I need some certificate or training to do security work?

I'm only working 2 nights a week, probably 1 during my semester cause I don't want it messing with my studies.

2nd night of training was pretty brutal though, I'm def not a night owl as I need my sleep and sleeping in till 11-12pm after a shift makes me feel like a lazy bast@rd. I just kept thinking, 'why the fck am I here?!' but... money.

I think I'll give it a month or so or until something better turns up. It'll suck to just go after the employer spent so much time training me though.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I have worked in a servo before doing the graveyard shift a couple of years ago. Paid about $24/hour. Not too much work required either. :D :D
 

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I work overnite a couple times a month at a nursing home right now. It really slows you down and if you aren't disciplined about it you will really lose your way. I worked last nite 7A to 7P (I get 28 an hour for overnite btw) and came home and slept until 12. After getting up and bull****ting with the GF for a little while and cooking lunch I fell asleep again from 3 to 7. Now despite my rest I am in a halfassed awake mode where I don't want to do anything but watch TV and type out badly worded sentences on sosuave. And I won't be able to sleep tonite either.

Graveyard shift is really only for the freaks and the truly disciplined. I hope you are trying it out while you aren't in class since it can mess your schedule up.
 

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Security you will probably need a certificate yes, but so what, it is not hard. Do a little more now so you can earn more and do something that will work alongside your studies.
 

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FairShake said:
I work overnite a couple times a month at a nursing home right now. It really slows you down and if you aren't disciplined about it you will really lose your way. I worked last nite 7A to 7P (I get 28 an hour for overnite btw) and came home and slept until 12. After getting up and bull****ting with the GF for a little while and cooking lunch I fell asleep again from 3 to 7. Now despite my rest I am in a halfassed awake mode where I don't want to do anything but watch TV and type out badly worded sentences on sosuave. And I won't be able to sleep tonite either.

Graveyard shift is really only for the freaks and the truly disciplined. I hope you are trying it out while you aren't in class since it can mess your schedule up.
Got another month and a bit till studies start again so I'll keep looking for a 'dayjob,' while working this job for the money.

I'd get a security cert but I don't have the money to get one atm.

I fully understand what you mean about the sleep though, felt like that after the first day. Need to really push myself to keep moving during the day.
 
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