"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Graveyard shift

search1ng

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Hey guys,

Hey guys, I just wanted to get your thoughts on this job offer (without going too in-depth).

* Working the graveyard shift (11-7am, but if I can work faster, it'll finish faster).
* Paid per delivery (1.15) plus flat bonus 15. Can reasonably pace myself at (23-30 deliveries/hr).
* # of deliveries differ per day (80<X<150).

Also, how many of you were able to hold down a night-time, part-time job while attending uni? Keeping in mind I'm doing a pretty full-on degree (medical radiation science). I've never had to work at night before and was worried in regards to how this would affect my study habits/routine.

Thanks!

p.s. I live in Australia

edit: example of pay rate. 80 parcels. 20 parcels delivered/hour. pay rate 1.15 per parcel. 15 bonus.
80x1.15=92+15=107.
107/4.5 (30 minutes loading stock onto truck) = 23.80

20 parcel/hr is delivering @ a laid back pace. I'd imagine If i hauled ass and got used to everything, 25+ parcels an hour would be achievable.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yeah, I'm on trial run for 4 nights. First night was a breeze.

The money isn't bad right? It's definitely not a slackers job. Need to finish things asap to keep my rate up.

Wish I could just find a well paying part time, day job. Heh.
 

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Get a job in security, pays well and you sit around doing nothing (i.e. you can study).

I've done night work once in my life and I think I lost a few years of my life doing it I was so worn out. It was ok for a week or two, then I felt it, and as the months wore on, it got worse. Most people say you can either do it or you can't, I think I was one that can't. I have a cousin that does it, and he said it took him 2 years to get used to it.
 

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Don't I need some certificate or training to do security work?

I'm only working 2 nights a week, probably 1 during my semester cause I don't want it messing with my studies.

2nd night of training was pretty brutal though, I'm def not a night owl as I need my sleep and sleeping in till 11-12pm after a shift makes me feel like a lazy bast@rd. I just kept thinking, 'why the fck am I here?!' but... money.

I think I'll give it a month or so or until something better turns up. It'll suck to just go after the employer spent so much time training me though.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have worked in a servo before doing the graveyard shift a couple of years ago. Paid about $24/hour. Not too much work required either. :D :D
 

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I work overnite a couple times a month at a nursing home right now. It really slows you down and if you aren't disciplined about it you will really lose your way. I worked last nite 7A to 7P (I get 28 an hour for overnite btw) and came home and slept until 12. After getting up and bull****ting with the GF for a little while and cooking lunch I fell asleep again from 3 to 7. Now despite my rest I am in a halfassed awake mode where I don't want to do anything but watch TV and type out badly worded sentences on sosuave. And I won't be able to sleep tonite either.

Graveyard shift is really only for the freaks and the truly disciplined. I hope you are trying it out while you aren't in class since it can mess your schedule up.
 

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Security you will probably need a certificate yes, but so what, it is not hard. Do a little more now so you can earn more and do something that will work alongside your studies.
 

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FairShake said:
I work overnite a couple times a month at a nursing home right now. It really slows you down and if you aren't disciplined about it you will really lose your way. I worked last nite 7A to 7P (I get 28 an hour for overnite btw) and came home and slept until 12. After getting up and bull****ting with the GF for a little while and cooking lunch I fell asleep again from 3 to 7. Now despite my rest I am in a halfassed awake mode where I don't want to do anything but watch TV and type out badly worded sentences on sosuave. And I won't be able to sleep tonite either.

Graveyard shift is really only for the freaks and the truly disciplined. I hope you are trying it out while you aren't in class since it can mess your schedule up.
Got another month and a bit till studies start again so I'll keep looking for a 'dayjob,' while working this job for the money.

I'd get a security cert but I don't have the money to get one atm.

I fully understand what you mean about the sleep though, felt like that after the first day. Need to really push myself to keep moving during the day.
 
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