"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Grand Cardone any thoughts?

eli77

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 7, 2013
Messages
2,706
Reaction score
596
Location
Miami fl
Read most of his books like him over all but would never attend his live events.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Poonani Maker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2007
Messages
4,392
Reaction score
927
He's totally about Leverage, which I can't stomach. The question is...where was he post-collapse 2008? He's only popular now because these are flush lush times. I can't stomach going to the bank much and leveraging purchases of over-valued over-priced homes. RE investing is Very difficult right now, you have to be smart AF.
 

RickTheToad

Moderator
Joined
Apr 21, 2018
Messages
6,596
Reaction score
5,132
Location
Bridgeport, CT
He'a a jabron; and a lucky one at that. Doesn't take much luck or risk to buy at the bottom of the market. However, he's leveraged at 90%. So, he says he has around 500 million in real estate, but only owns around 5 million (90% leveraged). He also lives quite high with a private jet, travel, shows, material stuff and an expensive "model" wife to support. We'll see how he handles the next downturn. IMO, he's way overleveraged; but what do I know. If he's able to survive it, kudos to him, but seems quite risky. I think @BeExcellent is a real estate investor. She'd be a better person to ask. I just work with animals. ;'p
 

BeExcellent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 16, 2015
Messages
5,429
Reaction score
7,960
Age
57
Hmmmm. I don’t know the guy. Will have to read up.

Here’s what I do know. Leverage is a very sharp double edged sword. People who live flashy like that will always be around. 90% is foolishly over leveraged in my view. But everything has its pros & cons.

An advantage of high leverage if the loans are backed by real property is that the lender gets the asset if the buyer can’t pay.

But if you watch the movie “The Big Short” you’ll see that macro influences can be ruinous too.

In every endeavor and in every strategy there exists risk. High equity? High liability exposure. High leverage? High market risk exposure of various types. So on the one hand you pick your poison. On the other hand few people in my view are doing the sort of risk analysis required to determine what acceptable risk is TO THEM. Flipping has risk. Holding has risk. Getting in your car to go to work has risk. Life is hazardous and there is only so much you can do about that.

Flashy gurus are selling the potential for an extravagant life. It’s very seductive and many are seeking that high life so there will always be people paying to chase that dream, most of whom never do anything.

So the income stream is as much or more from selling luxury or the illusion of it moreso than quality investing.

You want to make money with high leverage? Get into leveraged buyouts. That creates billionaires. Quiet billionaires often. Smart money is typically quiet money although trappings of wealth are perfectly fine if one has a taste for the finer things. But leveraged buyouts require very sophisticated financial skill. The average person is woefully ill equipped to succeed in that way. So you aren’t going to see seminars for that sort of thing offered to the general public. Rather that is the purview of the sophisticated investor with at least 7 figures of free capital available to put at risk...not something your average working stiff can do.

There are other means of course. But you need to be strategic, smart and shrewd.

Many of you here are to young to recall the 1980s. Swashbuckling high rollers up to their eyeballs in leverage. I personally knew people whose parents killed themselves after real estate crashed in the 80s. Leverage ruined many many people. So don’t get swept up in the glamour.

There are always mechanisms to make serious money. All require some level of knowledge and work ethic to last. Easy come easy go is alluring & seductive.

Be very careful.
 

wifehunter

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2015
Messages
5,145
Reaction score
3,302
Age
52
Location
Hoe County, California
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

eli77

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 7, 2013
Messages
2,706
Reaction score
596
Location
Miami fl
Awesome feedback surprised no one mentioned he's a scientologist
 

RickTheToad

Moderator
Joined
Apr 21, 2018
Messages
6,596
Reaction score
5,132
Location
Bridgeport, CT
Can’t knock him. I’ve listened to a few of his audiobooks. He’s repetitive and a little insane. Somehow it works for him though.
True, but not sustainable. Real Estate investing is not easy nor a game. It's fine when things are stagnant or going up. The true players and masters show their cards in the downturn.
 

Poonani Maker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2007
Messages
4,392
Reaction score
927
^^ I read RE books from those who are younger than me and are being realistic with me, practical. Biggerpockets.com is a good source of RE info. Income is easy to nail down. The Expenses is where most get swallowed whole. They don't realize certain expenses and thus think the deal they're staring at is "good."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

RickTheToad

Moderator
Joined
Apr 21, 2018
Messages
6,596
Reaction score
5,132
Location
Bridgeport, CT
^^ I read RE books from those who are younger than me and are being realistic with me, practical. Biggerpockets.com is a good source of RE info. Income is easy to nail down. The Expenses is where most get swallowed whole. They don't realize certain expenses and thus think the deal they're staring at is "good."
Seems newbies who are green are not really in the bigger pockets category. More like smaller pockets.. LoL.
 
Top