"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Would it be a little odd to out of nowhere grab her hand from across the table and complement her ring. Or her nails. I want to add more kino to my game but I don't want it to be a completely weird when I'm doing it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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it's not weird at all if you act like its nothing special...just try and act like its a normal thing and soon it will become normal.
 
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why compliment her hand as an excuse to hold her hand? Why not lean across the table, interrupt her in mid sentance to tell her you think shes absolutely adorable, take her hand, tell her to finish what she was saying, and then compliment her ring and keep holding her hand without an excuse?

Because that'd get you layed, and who wants that?
 
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Whatever you do, make sure it looks and more importantly FEELS natural. Otherwise, it's just going to be awkward for both of you.

Take her hand and maybe look at her ring(if she has one)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
why compliment her hand as an excuse to hold her hand? Why not lean across the table, interrupt her in mid sentance to tell her you think shes absolutely adorable, take her hand, tell her to finish what she was saying, and then compliment her ring and keep holding her hand without an excuse?

Because that'd get you layed, and who wants that?
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I'm going to try this. Tony, 1 question for you. Does this have to be a date? Or whenever I feel like it.
 
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