"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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gotto work on the tannage, buuuuuu-ddy

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little pauly shore quote for any simpsons fans out there :)

but in all seriousness i'm after some opinions from you pimps out there..

tan skin makes you look healthier, thus more attractive.

but i don't have the best skin for tanning. i've got fair skin, which burns easily. and from spending alot of time in the sun when i was younger i also have freckles. mainly on my face and arms. i got a comment from a girl who i recently caught up with after a year or so, after jokingly saying 'aren't i hot now?' she replied 'yeah, but u could use a tan'.

now while it was all joking, i know i would be more attractive with a tan, especially if it kind of covered my freckles? not sure if it would, or if they'd darken with the rest of my skin. but i'm getting off topic from what i wanted to ask.

living in australia we lack ozone layer and blah blah blah, trying to get a natural tan (as a guy with pale skin) probably isn't the best idea, very time consuming, and still dangerous.

i used to go to a tanning booth about a year ago, only went about 6-10 times and the results were fair, but i'm not really too keen on doing that again.


so what does everyone think is the best way to get a tan?

i'm especially interested if, like me, you have pale, freckly skin naturally, did u find a good way to get an even skin tone?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Basically there are four ways to get tan:

1. In the sun - you won't
2. Tanning bed - you won't
3. Tanning creams - darken your skin, haven't tried it
4. Tan spray - you go to a place and your sprayed with stuff to get a tan. Haven't tried it either.

IMO tanning beds are the best to get tan, but they will ruin your skin in the long run if you overdo it. You can do tanning beds whaever skin you have, start with 4 minutes, then 8, then 12, then 16 and end somewhere between 16-18 in the full time. I am northern europe and like most people here I have a bright skin and can get burned easily but tanning beds work for me.
 

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yeah, as i said, i tried tanning beds. and it was working quite well i had to stop due to medication i was on.

maybe i'll just do that again. but i am concerned at the health risks associated with it.
 

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get some info from some body building sites on which tanning creams are best and try them.... what have you got to lose?
 

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Most people look a lot better and sexier with a tan. I prefer tanning beds overall for their convenience and year-round tanning capability. The real sun produces the best tan, but tan beds do a pretty damn good job.

I've also used tanning sprays, lotions, etc. (as a point of reference: I have a medium complexion) The best I've found is the tanning spray (not foam or lotion) by Neutrogena. Use "medium deep", not "dark", which is good, but a little too intense and unnatural looking for my taste. I even use the medium deep Neutrogena to even out my facial complexion when I'm really wanting to look my best for a date or special night out.

When using any tanning spray or lotion, always remember to wash your hands quickly after applying it, or your palms will be colored too. Also remember to wash your face/body a little while after applying the tanning spray/foam/lotion, etc. It will last for a few days, so washing a little while after application will not remove any of the color right away, but will get rid of the smell.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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