Gotta vent - Thinks im being used

[Crissco]

Ive been talking to this girl for 3 months now. She kept saying she wanted to hang out, I planned to go out to her, which I never do. They always come to me.

She cancelled twice on me and I ceased contact with her. I called her. Told her we needed to talk, we made up. Then it happened again. I cut of contact again because she wouldn't even come out to see me when I was willing to go see her.

Im getting pissed here. She has a birthday party in 2 weeks. If she doesnt invite me, im done forever. I feel like im being used, even though we talk to each other and tell each other alot of things.

Part of me is pissed at my self because I got game and I pick up girls easy. I feel like I needed someone to talk to, especially at night. She was just there.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Oh man, you're fvcked.

You have to let this idiot broad dangle. Cut her off.

Which is more hurtful in the long-run? Her keeping you on her back burner whenever she needs a fix of attention, or you telling her to go fvck herself?

Which ending will give you confidence and set an example for your future?

 

[Crissco]

Oh man, you're fvcked.

You have to let this idiot broad dangle. Cut her off.

Which is more hurtful in the long-run? Her keeping you on her back burner whenever she needs a fix of attention, or you telling her to go fvck herself?

Which ending will give you confidence and set an example for your future?

Thanks bro, love u too lol...

Seriousness, believe me I know. I have 2-3 girls to my house weekly. With this one, it became a habit to talk to her every night just bc I felt like I needed someone.

Its more then fix for attention, its a habit for both of us. I use her to a degree too when I need my fix, im guilty of it. At the same time, me and her together can run rooms, rule the world, easily.

Ive told her to f*ck her self before too. But yet we still keep talking. Its almost childish in a way for me to keep doing that every time she pissed me off, I feel like im running. Which isnt me.

She knows I wont take ****. Nor does she.

Im going to give it two weeks. If she doesn't invite me to her birthday party(yes i sound like im 5, lol), shes done with for good. Taken off Facebook and my phone. Thats it, she'll be just another one of my wh*res. Nothing special.

 

[Htienvu]

This is why I like the 2strike rule. Less heart ache, unless in special circumstances. However, in your case your girl just sound like an AW.

 

[Jitterbug]

Um, why do you need someone to talk to at night?

 

[Crissco]

This is why I like the 2strike rule. Less heart ache, unless in special circumstances. However, in your case your girl just sound like an AW.

Exact rule I follow. Sometimes not that easy tho

Um, why do you need someone to talk to at night?

I get bored. Plus like I said became a habit

 

[Iceberg]

How do you know this girl? Is this one of those internet things where you spent 3 months chatting with a girl you never met?

 

[5string]

Um, why do you need someone to talk to at night?

He could borrow her cat and talk to it at night.

 

[Crissco]

I fell right into the trap I know and I can see it. Now its time to get out. and lol at the jokes, keep em coming.

 

[georgie24]

Oh man, you're fvcked.

You have to let this idiot broad dangle. Cut her off.

Which is more hurtful in the long-run? Her keeping you on her back burner whenever she needs a fix of attention, or you telling her to go fvck herself?

Which ending will give you confidence and set an example for your future?

i was going to reply but KS just said everything you need to do

 

[Crissco]

This is just another thread in the long list of reasons to choose self-respect over pvssy.

Believe me I know bro. Like I said ive been having 2-3 girls over a week and im still not truly happy. It was something I needed to go through to realize certain things on my own.

 

[BadNews]

Why are you 'talking' (on the phone late at night) to a girl you're INTERESTED in about 'stuff'??? Are you trying to put yourself in the friend zone? You should be focusing on building attraction/interest...not talking about your 'feelings'. Poorly played my friend, poorly played.

Don't give up too much of yourself before theres even a relationship. Even if you have game, and get women..it sounds like you might have a slight case of oneitis for this one? You need to remain composed..especially when its hard. Getting too 'talky' about feelings and **** early in a relationship is BAAAAD.

Relationships should be FUN and INTERESTING in the very early stages. Sounds like you skipped a bunch of steps with this one. Always try to keep things light, fun and interesting for ATLEAST the first few months (3-6). And NEVER talk too much about feelings with a woman you're seeing/interested in unless she brings it up first. I realize NEVER is black and white, and things never are black and white...but you REALLY REALLY need to use discretion early in a relationship.

Sometimes less is more my friend.

 

[Crissco]

Why are you 'talking' (on the phone late at night) to a girl you're INTERESTED in about 'stuff'??? Are you trying to put yourself in the friend zone? You should be focusing on building attraction/interest...not talking about your 'feelings'. Poorly played my friend, poorly played.

Don't give up too much of yourself before theres even a relationship. Even if you have game, and get women..it sounds like you might have a slight case of oneitis for this one? You need to remain composed..especially when its hard. Getting too 'talky' about feelings and **** early in a relationship is BAAAAD.

Relationships should be FUN and INTERESTING in the very early stages. Sounds like you skipped a bunch of steps with this one. Always try to keep things light, fun and interesting for ATLEAST the first few months (3-6). And NEVER talk too much about feelings with a woman you're seeing/interested in unless she brings it up first. I realize NEVER is black and white, and things never are black and white...but you REALLY REALLY need to use discretion early in a relationship.

Sometimes less is more my friend.

You hit the nail on the head bro

 

[runner83]

Yeah, so after 3 months, have you had your d!cjk in her pvssy yet?

If not, and you don't want her as a friend (?) then why are you still in contact with her if she has flaked on you repeatedly before?...?