"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Got weirdly dumped on New Year's. Questions....

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Corndowg

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So i'm having a great time with my girlfriend of two years. Two years of nothing but pure love between us. On New Year's I go to hang out with her huge family at their cousin's house. I'm chillin with no problems till I tell her we should go cause it's like 3:30. The last words are ok hold on. She starts saying goodbye to everyone when out of nowhere her older brother takes me outside to talk. He basically tells me to never contact her again or I'm dead. The thing is nothing happened. I don't think I did anything to provoke this. I'm hoping I could talk to her about it but I think her brothers basically brainwashed her already.

We were totally in love. Unnaturally. For 2 years. Now this? Like an hour before that situation everything was perfect. Now I'm lost, confused, and depressed.

WTF?!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Martini Joe

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Her brother is just f-cking with you, cat. For whatever reason he doesn't like your gig. Let it go. Don't sweat it.
 
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I seen your recent posting on how you're asking us if you should cheat with a co-worker behind your gf's back and how you proclaimed you cheated on her with her own friend. She may have been in "totally" in love with you, but according to your posts, it doesn't seem like you were in love with her enough to not even know better than to question if you should cheat or not.

If you love her so much, why do you have the audasity to say you're depressed about this when previously asked if you SHOULD cheat on her when you plainly shouldn't?
 
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She hacked your computer bro. I would get a gun man, her brother is probably gonna karate chop you. You better enroll for a women's self defense class at the Y.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Corndowg
So i'm having a great time with my girlfriend of two years. Two years of nothing but pure love between us. On New Year's I go to hang out with her huge family at their cousin's house. I'm chillin with no problems till I tell her we should go cause it's like 3:30. The last words are ok hold on. She starts saying goodbye to everyone when out of nowhere her older brother takes me outside to talk. He basically tells me to never contact her again or I'm dead. The thing is nothing happened. I don't think I did anything to provoke this. I'm hoping I could talk to her about it but I think her brothers basically brainwashed her already.

We were totally in love. Unnaturally. For 2 years. Now this? Like an hour before that situation everything was perfect. Now I'm lost, confused, and depressed.

WTF?!
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wow, you are a piece of ****.
 
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PRMoon

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What the hell does Unnatrually in lvome mean:confused:

If your post is legit I say call her brother out on his **** and take him on:up: Nothing gets your day going like a good rumble!:woo:
 
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OMG LOL...

sound slike you made yourself a nice pile of **** there dude, maybe it's time to think about crawling out of it and rethink your life in general... no offence
 
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Originally posted by laffytaffygirl
I seen your recent posting on how you're asking us if you should cheat with a co-worker behind your gf's back and how you proclaimed you cheated on her with her own friend. She may have been in "totally" in love with you, but according to your posts, it doesn't seem like you were in love with her enough to not even know better than to question if you should cheat or not.

If you love her so much, why do you have the audasity to say you're depressed about this when previously asked if you SHOULD cheat on her when you plainly shouldn't?
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Your either a chick or a moron. Make no mistakes "Love" and sex are 2 totally different animals for men, thats right believe it or not we can seperate the 2 quite easily. Drill this into your head until it sinks in and spare us that Oprah sh!t again eh? That lame attempt at making the guy feel guilt crap wont fly here.

edit: well it does fly because this place is pretty much a joke now obviously but you get what I mean.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ahhh SHADDAP!


She has a good point, even if she's a female or not.

Your either a chick or a moron. Make no mistakes "Love" and sex are 2 totally different animals for men, thats right believe it or not we can seperate the 2 quite easily.

That's a far fetched statement and you're saying it because you're use to that excuse. If it's 2 different things then he doesn't need to be in a relationship. He's a guy yeah, but he has common sense. He just didn't use it.


i kissed my girlfriend's sister's friend. It was a birthday party. I was ****in drunk and so was the sex temptress. She was calling me a ***** for not doing anything with her when I was basically holding back. I did not tell this girl that I have a girlfriend however so that doesn't help my cause. We were ****in with her head cause she was drunk. My girlfriend even said she wasn't with me. I just wanted to mess with this girls head and instead being the drunk stoned idiot i am I kissed her before she left.


This one girl I used to make out with and do stuff with less than a year ago finally got a car and more freedom recently. In the past **** held us back and now it doesn't. She wants to basically come over and get down. I want to do her. What do i do about "my girl"? I'm worried about losing her if i tell her that i want to put stuff on hold cause she'll know it's to bang other chicks. She's not stupid. Should I just lie to her, say I'm working and spend the day with this other girl or what? I know this girl would just be an easy **** and trust me, it would be worth it for me.

Anyone have experience with this type of situation? I was thinking of just lieing to my girl but you know, morals and karma and ****. Help!


Don't defend the guy for fucking up. He purposely disrespected his girlfriend on more than one occasion over the past 2 years. Her respect for you, much like her interest level for you dropped. What did you expect? You're surprised? You're shocked? You're an ass. Don't disrespect a good woman and then scratch your head wondering why she left your goofy butt.
 
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