"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Got weirdly dumped on New Year's. Questions....

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So i'm having a great time with my girlfriend of two years. Two years of nothing but pure love between us. On New Year's I go to hang out with her huge family at their cousin's house. I'm chillin with no problems till I tell her we should go cause it's like 3:30. The last words are ok hold on. She starts saying goodbye to everyone when out of nowhere her older brother takes me outside to talk. He basically tells me to never contact her again or I'm dead. The thing is nothing happened. I don't think I did anything to provoke this. I'm hoping I could talk to her about it but I think her brothers basically brainwashed her already.

We were totally in love. Unnaturally. For 2 years. Now this? Like an hour before that situation everything was perfect. Now I'm lost, confused, and depressed.

WTF?!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Her brother is just f-cking with you, cat. For whatever reason he doesn't like your gig. Let it go. Don't sweat it.
 
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I seen your recent posting on how you're asking us if you should cheat with a co-worker behind your gf's back and how you proclaimed you cheated on her with her own friend. She may have been in "totally" in love with you, but according to your posts, it doesn't seem like you were in love with her enough to not even know better than to question if you should cheat or not.

If you love her so much, why do you have the audasity to say you're depressed about this when previously asked if you SHOULD cheat on her when you plainly shouldn't?
 
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She hacked your computer bro. I would get a gun man, her brother is probably gonna karate chop you. You better enroll for a women's self defense class at the Y.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Corndowg
So i'm having a great time with my girlfriend of two years. Two years of nothing but pure love between us. On New Year's I go to hang out with her huge family at their cousin's house. I'm chillin with no problems till I tell her we should go cause it's like 3:30. The last words are ok hold on. She starts saying goodbye to everyone when out of nowhere her older brother takes me outside to talk. He basically tells me to never contact her again or I'm dead. The thing is nothing happened. I don't think I did anything to provoke this. I'm hoping I could talk to her about it but I think her brothers basically brainwashed her already.

We were totally in love. Unnaturally. For 2 years. Now this? Like an hour before that situation everything was perfect. Now I'm lost, confused, and depressed.

WTF?!
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wow, you are a piece of ****.
 
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What the hell does Unnatrually in lvome mean:confused:

If your post is legit I say call her brother out on his **** and take him on:up: Nothing gets your day going like a good rumble!:woo:
 
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OMG LOL...

sound slike you made yourself a nice pile of **** there dude, maybe it's time to think about crawling out of it and rethink your life in general... no offence
 
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Originally posted by laffytaffygirl
I seen your recent posting on how you're asking us if you should cheat with a co-worker behind your gf's back and how you proclaimed you cheated on her with her own friend. She may have been in "totally" in love with you, but according to your posts, it doesn't seem like you were in love with her enough to not even know better than to question if you should cheat or not.

If you love her so much, why do you have the audasity to say you're depressed about this when previously asked if you SHOULD cheat on her when you plainly shouldn't?
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Your either a chick or a moron. Make no mistakes "Love" and sex are 2 totally different animals for men, thats right believe it or not we can seperate the 2 quite easily. Drill this into your head until it sinks in and spare us that Oprah sh!t again eh? That lame attempt at making the guy feel guilt crap wont fly here.

edit: well it does fly because this place is pretty much a joke now obviously but you get what I mean.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ahhh SHADDAP!


She has a good point, even if she's a female or not.

Your either a chick or a moron. Make no mistakes "Love" and sex are 2 totally different animals for men, thats right believe it or not we can seperate the 2 quite easily.

That's a far fetched statement and you're saying it because you're use to that excuse. If it's 2 different things then he doesn't need to be in a relationship. He's a guy yeah, but he has common sense. He just didn't use it.


i kissed my girlfriend's sister's friend. It was a birthday party. I was ****in drunk and so was the sex temptress. She was calling me a ***** for not doing anything with her when I was basically holding back. I did not tell this girl that I have a girlfriend however so that doesn't help my cause. We were ****in with her head cause she was drunk. My girlfriend even said she wasn't with me. I just wanted to mess with this girls head and instead being the drunk stoned idiot i am I kissed her before she left.


This one girl I used to make out with and do stuff with less than a year ago finally got a car and more freedom recently. In the past **** held us back and now it doesn't. She wants to basically come over and get down. I want to do her. What do i do about "my girl"? I'm worried about losing her if i tell her that i want to put stuff on hold cause she'll know it's to bang other chicks. She's not stupid. Should I just lie to her, say I'm working and spend the day with this other girl or what? I know this girl would just be an easy **** and trust me, it would be worth it for me.

Anyone have experience with this type of situation? I was thinking of just lieing to my girl but you know, morals and karma and ****. Help!


Don't defend the guy for fucking up. He purposely disrespected his girlfriend on more than one occasion over the past 2 years. Her respect for you, much like her interest level for you dropped. What did you expect? You're surprised? You're shocked? You're an ass. Don't disrespect a good woman and then scratch your head wondering why she left your goofy butt.
 
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