"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Got two women...

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Hey Guys,

So there's a woman I've been seeing on and off for about 2 weeks; great face, fit/athletic body, good personality (Quirky - in a good way, but also a little shy)... really long term relationship material.

Only problem is a new woman just entered the scene,

This woman also has a gorgeous face, great body (curvy in the right places) and a really bright personality.

Both women are fine examples of girls with proper heads on their shoulders. Also, since I've always preferred relationships over short flings and all that meaningless crap I'm somewhat at a loss as to what to do.

First girl is into me, we get along great and i get all kinds of 'I'm interested,' signals. Second girl I haven't met as often but i get great vibes from her and she's always smiling and flirting and laughing at my jokes, even if they honestly suck! haha.

Now... I can't have both cause that would be cheating and I don't cheat.

This may come across as shallow and slightly egotistic but which one do I go for?!

Honestly, I think I'm more physically/sexually attracted to the second girl but when I'm with the first, things just feel right.

It's a really a weird position to be in, not something I'm all that familiar with either... hence the thread.

Also, I know if I ended up with the second, I'd be breaking the first girls heart - which sucks cause i hate seeing women cry.

Anyway, obviously not the standard PUA type thread but I'd appreciate some input.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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d!ckmojo said:
great problem to have dude~ better to have too many options that the alternative...
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Haha, agreed!

Still, I just want the best outcome so i can move on with my life and continue to mature as a Don Juan.

Preferably while getting some great sex.
 
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Of course the first "feels right" compared to the second, you've been seeing her much longer. If you are looking for something long term with one or the other you should give the 2nd girl a fighting chance to catch up a little bit on the deeper side of things. If you are attracted physically to both girls than go with your gut, but don't don't let the 1st girls heartbreak be an influence.

The other option is to see which one will give you head in a public bathroom, then pick the other one so you don't get the herp.
 
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Two weeks isn't long enough to know if either are really LTR material. Keep dating both of them for as long as possible without getting exclusive.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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vwmaniac said:
Of course the first "feels right" compared to the second, you've been seeing her much longer. If you are looking for something long term with one or the other you should give the 2nd girl a fighting chance to catch up a little bit on the deeper side of things. If you are attracted physically to both girls than go with your gut, but don't don't let the 1st girls heartbreak be an influence.

The other option is to see which one will give you head in a public bathroom, then pick the other one so you don't get the herp.
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Wow, you're right... Will keep this in mind, thanks
 
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