"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hey Guys,

So there's a woman I've been seeing on and off for about 2 weeks; great face, fit/athletic body, good personality (Quirky - in a good way, but also a little shy)... really long term relationship material.

Only problem is a new woman just entered the scene,

This woman also has a gorgeous face, great body (curvy in the right places) and a really bright personality.

Both women are fine examples of girls with proper heads on their shoulders. Also, since I've always preferred relationships over short flings and all that meaningless crap I'm somewhat at a loss as to what to do.

First girl is into me, we get along great and i get all kinds of 'I'm interested,' signals. Second girl I haven't met as often but i get great vibes from her and she's always smiling and flirting and laughing at my jokes, even if they honestly suck! haha.

Now... I can't have both cause that would be cheating and I don't cheat.

This may come across as shallow and slightly egotistic but which one do I go for?!

Honestly, I think I'm more physically/sexually attracted to the second girl but when I'm with the first, things just feel right.

It's a really a weird position to be in, not something I'm all that familiar with either... hence the thread.

Also, I know if I ended up with the second, I'd be breaking the first girls heart - which sucks cause i hate seeing women cry.

Anyway, obviously not the standard PUA type thread but I'd appreciate some input.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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d!ckmojo said:
great problem to have dude~ better to have too many options that the alternative...
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Haha, agreed!

Still, I just want the best outcome so i can move on with my life and continue to mature as a Don Juan.

Preferably while getting some great sex.
 
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Of course the first "feels right" compared to the second, you've been seeing her much longer. If you are looking for something long term with one or the other you should give the 2nd girl a fighting chance to catch up a little bit on the deeper side of things. If you are attracted physically to both girls than go with your gut, but don't don't let the 1st girls heartbreak be an influence.

The other option is to see which one will give you head in a public bathroom, then pick the other one so you don't get the herp.
 
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Two weeks isn't long enough to know if either are really LTR material. Keep dating both of them for as long as possible without getting exclusive.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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vwmaniac said:
Of course the first "feels right" compared to the second, you've been seeing her much longer. If you are looking for something long term with one or the other you should give the 2nd girl a fighting chance to catch up a little bit on the deeper side of things. If you are attracted physically to both girls than go with your gut, but don't don't let the 1st girls heartbreak be an influence.

The other option is to see which one will give you head in a public bathroom, then pick the other one so you don't get the herp.
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Wow, you're right... Will keep this in mind, thanks
 
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