"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Got turned down by two women in a week.... wtf?

TheLadiesMan

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Got tired of waiting for the women to approach, I figured I'd try to create my own...
Both co-workers, which I should have known better by now... it just seems that everybody is F'ing everybody else, except me. :(

The first one has 3 kids, age 34 I think? Not all that great looking, but she looked like she would be fun to throw around on the bed. Total rejection.

Second one was a her friend, she's 21... I figured, why not let her friend have the fun the other turned down, right? ...no go either.

I just can't seem to attract them lately. 3 months ago, I had three women in my life, then I got big headed, and BLAM! ...lost them all to my ego trips.

Now, I'm just wondering wtf is wrong with me? ...I'm in the best shape of my life. Appearance is great. I'm funny, I'm confident.... wtf?!

Today was not a good day either... my 3 year old son calls me a "poopie head" ...my ex called me "lame" only because I think she heard that I tried to get with a co-worker(s). I work with her too.

I hope to get out of this funk soon.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It happens ......

number 2 you should have known was not going to bite ...... nobody wants to be second best ...

it comes in spurts

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TheLadiesMan

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D'oh!! ...why didn't I think of that!!! I should have known this!!!! ...now that makes sense, thank you sir. I was starting to question my decision making process. Maybe it's from over working myself?

Got to be honest with you here.. my birthday is coming up, and lately, I've been feeln "old" you know? ...like have I reached that stage in my life where 18-21 year olds are out of reach now? I'll be 38 this month. Maybe that is the reason I'm itching to get some woman in bed? ..I feel I'm at my prime right now, and just don't want it to go to waste... oye.
 
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