"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Got turned down by two women in a week.... wtf?

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Got tired of waiting for the women to approach, I figured I'd try to create my own...
Both co-workers, which I should have known better by now... it just seems that everybody is F'ing everybody else, except me. :(

The first one has 3 kids, age 34 I think? Not all that great looking, but she looked like she would be fun to throw around on the bed. Total rejection.

Second one was a her friend, she's 21... I figured, why not let her friend have the fun the other turned down, right? ...no go either.

I just can't seem to attract them lately. 3 months ago, I had three women in my life, then I got big headed, and BLAM! ...lost them all to my ego trips.

Now, I'm just wondering wtf is wrong with me? ...I'm in the best shape of my life. Appearance is great. I'm funny, I'm confident.... wtf?!

Today was not a good day either... my 3 year old son calls me a "poopie head" ...my ex called me "lame" only because I think she heard that I tried to get with a co-worker(s). I work with her too.

I hope to get out of this funk soon.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It happens ......

number 2 you should have known was not going to bite ...... nobody wants to be second best ...

it comes in spurts

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D'oh!! ...why didn't I think of that!!! I should have known this!!!! ...now that makes sense, thank you sir. I was starting to question my decision making process. Maybe it's from over working myself?

Got to be honest with you here.. my birthday is coming up, and lately, I've been feeln "old" you know? ...like have I reached that stage in my life where 18-21 year olds are out of reach now? I'll be 38 this month. Maybe that is the reason I'm itching to get some woman in bed? ..I feel I'm at my prime right now, and just don't want it to go to waste... oye.
 
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