Got the number (to an extent). Need Advice!

[Omega]

So look, I don't normally ask for advice but in this situation I think it's needed. I talked to this girl the other day for the first time in years, and I completely forgot to ask for a # because I was in awe at how much she had changed. I have her # in old phone lists, but because I didn't specifically ask her should I still make the call?

She was showing major IOI's with heavy eye contact, mediocre kino.

 

[Omega]

Come on boys, don't be shy.

 

[Omega]

Its coming to a point where I'm goign to cut off testicles for ratio of views to replies.

 

[California Love]

Yea make the call. There can only be benefits.

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

Originally posted by California Love
Yea make the call. There can only be benefits.

I second that. You have nothing to lose.

 

[Omega]

Do I pretend she gave it to me so I can bust her and open some heavy c/f, or, how do i play it off?

 

[CLOONEY]

Your going to come off needy and a bit of a stalker, even if she likes you! If there is a chance u could see her in person somewhere "accidently" I would do that instead. But if this girl u prob wont see again unless u ring her, why not, just tell her u still had her number from before and that u two should "catch up". If you are confident during the call and just be yourself, it might not be too much of a problem, and if u aint gonna see her again anyways, u have nothing to loose.

 

[squirrels]

Will you see her again? If so, get her number then.

Do NOT just look her number up off a list or a phone book and call her. Creeps and stalkers do that.

If it's your only option (i.e. you're not gonig to see her again), then yeah, do it. What the hell.

 

[Omega]

Yea I met her at a function from an old organization we were in, and the chance of me seeing her again is close to nothing unless I maigcally see her on the subway, or run into her next year if she's even there. Should I try to ignore how I got the #, or play it off as a joke . "Oh yea, well I'm actually a professiional stalker, I stalk little girls "

 

[Craig Reeves]

Well, if she's given you her phone number before, then you can just go ahead and call her.

Just call her up and let her know that you found her phone number somewhere and that you'd like for the two of you to get together to catch up. Simple as that.

It's actually quite hard for women to feel as if you're being a needy stalker. We just tend to overthink these things because we're better with women than most guys are so we can sometimes be a bit more careful than we need to be. I've been guilty of this myself many times.