"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maxtro

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Thanks for the input kdnash82. I like your conversation style, it seems more fun and natural than the interview method.

The lunch date may seem dull and unoriginal but I don't have any dating experience at all and I want to start simple. Heck I haven't even been alone with a woman in a couple of years. If the date is going good I'll suggest another activity to extend it. If it's going bad I'll thank her for her time and take her home.

Sosuave needs more information on what to do with a girl once you get her number and want to ask her out. Well the info may be here but it's not easily found. I need to spend some time doing some hardcore searching.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Good luck, Maxtro, definitely let us know how it goes. KDNash82's advice is golden, I think. I definitely fall into the common conversation he was saying not to do and I don't think it's best even though I get high attraction. I'm going to try what he said tonight with some of the girls I'll be meeting.
 
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