"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maxtro

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Thanks for the input kdnash82. I like your conversation style, it seems more fun and natural than the interview method.

The lunch date may seem dull and unoriginal but I don't have any dating experience at all and I want to start simple. Heck I haven't even been alone with a woman in a couple of years. If the date is going good I'll suggest another activity to extend it. If it's going bad I'll thank her for her time and take her home.

Sosuave needs more information on what to do with a girl once you get her number and want to ask her out. Well the info may be here but it's not easily found. I need to spend some time doing some hardcore searching.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheMaestro87

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Good luck, Maxtro, definitely let us know how it goes. KDNash82's advice is golden, I think. I definitely fall into the common conversation he was saying not to do and I don't think it's best even though I get high attraction. I'm going to try what he said tonight with some of the girls I'll be meeting.
 
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