"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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got the #... now what

superchristx

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There's a girl in one of my classes at college, she's Nepali, beautiful, I'm sure we have nothing in common but I want to get back in the saddle and I think she would make a good mark. I already know I'm not her type, I swear alot and often forget to shave but basically I'm handsome and tall and strong looking , and think if I apply myself I can get her into bed.

She rides to bus home with me and during our conversation today she mentioned a boyfriend (after several conversations w/ no mention of him) so I just rolled right past it, like I didn't notice or didn't care. I figure she wouldn't even be entertaining a filthy animal like me if she didn't really want that deep down. I asked for the number and she said "You want me to give you my phone number?" like that meant something, and I said "Why the hell not?!," not angrily but just as though she was being ridiculous. So she wrote it down and I dont know what to do next. Where should I take her, what should I do? How should I classify this appointment when I talk with her?

I know she has a boyfriend, so I need a date idea that won't put her guard up and won't make her think I'm putting the moves on her. We live near Washington DC so options are pretty much limitless.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hoppy

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Off the top of my head i'd say something fun would be the way to go.

Bowling, mini-putt, exc.
 

Wiesman44

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I dunno man, playing ball on another guy's turf is pretty ****ty. Even if you know you are gonna get her b/c your a damn good dj. There's plenty of guy's out there, and why ruin someone else's good relationship ?
 

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In conversation with her she told you she has a boyfriend. Forget her.

She's being friendly while passing bus time with you. Her IL is zero. If you were involved with someone, would you tell the attractive bus chick that you had a girlfriend? Of course not. She brought up her boyfriend because she knows exactly what you're thinking and wants you to take the hint.
 

skinnydart

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She brought up her boyfriend because she knows exactly what you're thinking and wants you to take the hint.
But then again she isn't from around here so she might not be thinking that at all. I'd say if she gave you her #, go for it...
Here's a sad-but-true fact: it's easier to steal someone else's girl than to keep your own!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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superchristx

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you know, I just read all y'alls post and you're absolutely right. Even re-reading my post I see that I have no real reason to defile their relationship, there's plenty of poon in the sea. I think I'll just make her a friend, keep her around to kill time on the bus.
 
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