"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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got the #... now what

superchristx

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There's a girl in one of my classes at college, she's Nepali, beautiful, I'm sure we have nothing in common but I want to get back in the saddle and I think she would make a good mark. I already know I'm not her type, I swear alot and often forget to shave but basically I'm handsome and tall and strong looking , and think if I apply myself I can get her into bed.

She rides to bus home with me and during our conversation today she mentioned a boyfriend (after several conversations w/ no mention of him) so I just rolled right past it, like I didn't notice or didn't care. I figure she wouldn't even be entertaining a filthy animal like me if she didn't really want that deep down. I asked for the number and she said "You want me to give you my phone number?" like that meant something, and I said "Why the hell not?!," not angrily but just as though she was being ridiculous. So she wrote it down and I dont know what to do next. Where should I take her, what should I do? How should I classify this appointment when I talk with her?

I know she has a boyfriend, so I need a date idea that won't put her guard up and won't make her think I'm putting the moves on her. We live near Washington DC so options are pretty much limitless.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hoppy

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Off the top of my head i'd say something fun would be the way to go.

Bowling, mini-putt, exc.
 

Wiesman44

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I dunno man, playing ball on another guy's turf is pretty ****ty. Even if you know you are gonna get her b/c your a damn good dj. There's plenty of guy's out there, and why ruin someone else's good relationship ?
 

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In conversation with her she told you she has a boyfriend. Forget her.

She's being friendly while passing bus time with you. Her IL is zero. If you were involved with someone, would you tell the attractive bus chick that you had a girlfriend? Of course not. She brought up her boyfriend because she knows exactly what you're thinking and wants you to take the hint.
 

skinnydart

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She brought up her boyfriend because she knows exactly what you're thinking and wants you to take the hint.
But then again she isn't from around here so she might not be thinking that at all. I'd say if she gave you her #, go for it...
Here's a sad-but-true fact: it's easier to steal someone else's girl than to keep your own!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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superchristx

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you know, I just read all y'alls post and you're absolutely right. Even re-reading my post I see that I have no real reason to defile their relationship, there's plenty of poon in the sea. I think I'll just make her a friend, keep her around to kill time on the bus.
 
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