"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Got stood up

backseatjuan

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Talked to a 20 year old this morning on pof type of thingy. After work we were suppose to meet, she was suppose to call me an hour before she ends work. So anyway, she calls me 19:41, I was with another chick. So alright, let's drink coffee I say, give me 40 minutes. Agrees, says she'll wait, 20:17 she calls again, I say I'm in the traffic. At 20:48 I call her several times, when I get to the place, she's not there and not picking up. I SMS her 'you know it's not nice'

Now I get SMS back from her, 'I'll give you a call a bit later'


GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY


Now I admit, it was sort of my fault, I was with a chick already, and we had some business to take care of. But fvck, if you say you'll wait, wait. If you can't wait, pick up the phone and say you have to go. Why the fvck do I have to burn fuel through traffic, wasting my precious pimp time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The LadyKiller

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Your fault buddy.

What time did the date start? If she called at 19:41, I am guessing the date was at 19:30. She waited over an hour and then left (20:48). If the roles were reversed, would you wait an hour (answer: no)? Exactly.

Just because you were on a date with another girl doesn't give you validation for ditching another date. Plan your schedule out better. You stood her up.
 

Tyson420

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That's what you get for messing with 20 year olds.

I deal with 20 year olds everyday, these kids never left high school mentally.

Still don't get why these old men are still dating kids.
 

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you left her hanging for at least 1 hour 20 min. It just shows a lack of class on your behalf.
 
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