"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Got stood up

backseatjuan

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Talked to a 20 year old this morning on pof type of thingy. After work we were suppose to meet, she was suppose to call me an hour before she ends work. So anyway, she calls me 19:41, I was with another chick. So alright, let's drink coffee I say, give me 40 minutes. Agrees, says she'll wait, 20:17 she calls again, I say I'm in the traffic. At 20:48 I call her several times, when I get to the place, she's not there and not picking up. I SMS her 'you know it's not nice'

Now I get SMS back from her, 'I'll give you a call a bit later'


GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY


Now I admit, it was sort of my fault, I was with a chick already, and we had some business to take care of. But fvck, if you say you'll wait, wait. If you can't wait, pick up the phone and say you have to go. Why the fvck do I have to burn fuel through traffic, wasting my precious pimp time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The LadyKiller

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Your fault buddy.

What time did the date start? If she called at 19:41, I am guessing the date was at 19:30. She waited over an hour and then left (20:48). If the roles were reversed, would you wait an hour (answer: no)? Exactly.

Just because you were on a date with another girl doesn't give you validation for ditching another date. Plan your schedule out better. You stood her up.
 

Tyson420

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That's what you get for messing with 20 year olds.

I deal with 20 year olds everyday, these kids never left high school mentally.

Still don't get why these old men are still dating kids.
 

window

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you left her hanging for at least 1 hour 20 min. It just shows a lack of class on your behalf.
 
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