"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Got stood up

backseatjuan

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Talked to a 20 year old this morning on pof type of thingy. After work we were suppose to meet, she was suppose to call me an hour before she ends work. So anyway, she calls me 19:41, I was with another chick. So alright, let's drink coffee I say, give me 40 minutes. Agrees, says she'll wait, 20:17 she calls again, I say I'm in the traffic. At 20:48 I call her several times, when I get to the place, she's not there and not picking up. I SMS her 'you know it's not nice'

Now I get SMS back from her, 'I'll give you a call a bit later'


GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY


Now I admit, it was sort of my fault, I was with a chick already, and we had some business to take care of. But fvck, if you say you'll wait, wait. If you can't wait, pick up the phone and say you have to go. Why the fvck do I have to burn fuel through traffic, wasting my precious pimp time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The LadyKiller

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Your fault buddy.

What time did the date start? If she called at 19:41, I am guessing the date was at 19:30. She waited over an hour and then left (20:48). If the roles were reversed, would you wait an hour (answer: no)? Exactly.

Just because you were on a date with another girl doesn't give you validation for ditching another date. Plan your schedule out better. You stood her up.
 

Tyson420

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That's what you get for messing with 20 year olds.

I deal with 20 year olds everyday, these kids never left high school mentally.

Still don't get why these old men are still dating kids.
 

window

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you left her hanging for at least 1 hour 20 min. It just shows a lack of class on your behalf.
 
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