"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Got rid of one girl for another girl.. How??

LegendBoy

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Okay I will try to make this as short as possible.

On friday night I went to dinner with this chick and all her friends and there boyfriends. I do not like this girl to me she was a using buddy and she saw me as a bf. LOL. Now thing is I was going to end it soon and she was getting to lovey towards me.

That same night at a restuarant I saw another group of girls I rated one of them. To my suprise them girls were from the same school and year of the girl I was with(the girls I was with were *****ing about how much they hated them each other). I found one of them girls hot, so I knew it I had to get out of the situation with the girl I was with.

After dinner we went around in a group. And I saw my female cousin who was with her friends. I left the girls I went dinner with and went for a drive with my cousin.

We parked somehwere and saw that girl from dinner I thought was hot. I then said to my cousins friend that I rated that girl after I saw they were friends and that girl told her before I even said that, the she thought I was hot. Then without me saying anything my cousins friend asked her if she was single and all that and shes like ye. But when she tried talking to her bout me apparently she said she doesnt want to progress it becauase she doesn't want probz and arguments with the girl I was with at dinner.

Now situation is I fukd off the girl from dinner and got the msn and myspace of the chix I rate.

What should i do from here? Is the situation really that hard to win from, she rates me looks.. Whats my best course of action?

I dont usually ask for help but in this situation I do kind of need it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LegendBoy

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Bump. Its funny how the posts that get the most responses are the guys who are asking how to say hi to the girl that never notices them.

Anyone give me some feedback.
 

Obsidian

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your post is extremely hard to understand, but how about...ask them out?
 
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