"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Got rid of one girl for another girl.. How??

LegendBoy

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Okay I will try to make this as short as possible.

On friday night I went to dinner with this chick and all her friends and there boyfriends. I do not like this girl to me she was a using buddy and she saw me as a bf. LOL. Now thing is I was going to end it soon and she was getting to lovey towards me.

That same night at a restuarant I saw another group of girls I rated one of them. To my suprise them girls were from the same school and year of the girl I was with(the girls I was with were *****ing about how much they hated them each other). I found one of them girls hot, so I knew it I had to get out of the situation with the girl I was with.

After dinner we went around in a group. And I saw my female cousin who was with her friends. I left the girls I went dinner with and went for a drive with my cousin.

We parked somehwere and saw that girl from dinner I thought was hot. I then said to my cousins friend that I rated that girl after I saw they were friends and that girl told her before I even said that, the she thought I was hot. Then without me saying anything my cousins friend asked her if she was single and all that and shes like ye. But when she tried talking to her bout me apparently she said she doesnt want to progress it becauase she doesn't want probz and arguments with the girl I was with at dinner.

Now situation is I fukd off the girl from dinner and got the msn and myspace of the chix I rate.

What should i do from here? Is the situation really that hard to win from, she rates me looks.. Whats my best course of action?

I dont usually ask for help but in this situation I do kind of need it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LegendBoy

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Bump. Its funny how the posts that get the most responses are the guys who are asking how to say hi to the girl that never notices them.

Anyone give me some feedback.
 

Obsidian

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your post is extremely hard to understand, but how about...ask them out?
 
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