Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Got rejected today but feeling great!!!

Essa Rios

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Today as i was walking home from Target i saw this sexy Latina girl rushing toward the bus stop but the bus took off without her. So she sits on the bus stop bench waiting for the next one. Normally i would just look at her from the corner of my eyes and keep on walking by as yeah i shy. But my new attitude now is "Getting rejected is much better than not trying at all".

So this time, as i was walking by her i said hello and introduced myself. Sat down next to her and took off my sunglasses. Wanted to make her feel comfortable and not creep her out. My game is not all that so i just said that i thought she looked amazing and that if she was single i would love to take her out. We begin talking and she asked about my age, where i live, etc.

I really thought i was in but she "said" she has just gotten out of a relationship plus also had a baby 15months ago. I still went for her number but she wouldnt give it to me. I should of offered her mine but i wasnt thinking. Soon her bus came and we said our goodbyes.

Yeah i was turned down but my confidence is at a all time high!!! If i could talk to this sexy girl without getting nervous, i can talk to any girl now!!!!!!
Can't wait till tomorrow!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kirro

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Cheers OP. Get out there, get it done. Oh & make sure you're simultaneously working on your look & style. Always try to get dat yes percentage as high as possible.

Note - Dude, if I were you I would have made fun of her missing the bus. Yeah it may have pissed her off but I just can't resist some good trollin'.
 

Luke

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Well done dude!

I also approached this waitress the other day and got rejected. A friend was with me and I told him I was going to do it, when she rejected me another good friend of mine stod randomly behind me and saw me got rejected. That was a cool experience :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Marvin Gaye

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Negative thoughts down the drain just relax, let t
Awww man lol, you went straight for a compliment, should of teased her about the bus ditiching her. I used to take the bus a lot, I've got maddd bus game lol

She had a baby anyway...wouldn't have been a good use of your time, and no man you we're "not thinking" when you forgot to offer your number.

It's pretty well known the best way is to get her number, then accuse her of giving you a fake # and call her on the spot :)

yeah you're on your way nice
 

Szyzzlin

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Nice work.. now do the same to every girl you see walking down the street. Guaranteed success!! Eventually you'll get what you want.
 

movistar

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Nice! Once you start doing the approach it gets easier and easier. Approaching the hot chicks is the right way to go, the average chick will seem like child's play.
 

HighResurrection

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hey man good job. Keep it up. The more you do the more you learn. I Wouldn't take of the sun glasses because they convey higher status and that's what you want. Had an approach today myself.

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