"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Got rejected today but feeling great!!!

Essa Rios

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Today as i was walking home from Target i saw this sexy Latina girl rushing toward the bus stop but the bus took off without her. So she sits on the bus stop bench waiting for the next one. Normally i would just look at her from the corner of my eyes and keep on walking by as yeah i shy. But my new attitude now is "Getting rejected is much better than not trying at all".

So this time, as i was walking by her i said hello and introduced myself. Sat down next to her and took off my sunglasses. Wanted to make her feel comfortable and not creep her out. My game is not all that so i just said that i thought she looked amazing and that if she was single i would love to take her out. We begin talking and she asked about my age, where i live, etc.

I really thought i was in but she "said" she has just gotten out of a relationship plus also had a baby 15months ago. I still went for her number but she wouldnt give it to me. I should of offered her mine but i wasnt thinking. Soon her bus came and we said our goodbyes.

Yeah i was turned down but my confidence is at a all time high!!! If i could talk to this sexy girl without getting nervous, i can talk to any girl now!!!!!!
Can't wait till tomorrow!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Kirro

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Cheers OP. Get out there, get it done. Oh & make sure you're simultaneously working on your look & style. Always try to get dat yes percentage as high as possible.

Note - Dude, if I were you I would have made fun of her missing the bus. Yeah it may have pissed her off but I just can't resist some good trollin'.
 

Luke

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Well done dude!

I also approached this waitress the other day and got rejected. A friend was with me and I told him I was going to do it, when she rejected me another good friend of mine stod randomly behind me and saw me got rejected. That was a cool experience :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Marvin Gaye

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Negative thoughts down the drain just relax, let t
Awww man lol, you went straight for a compliment, should of teased her about the bus ditiching her. I used to take the bus a lot, I've got maddd bus game lol

She had a baby anyway...wouldn't have been a good use of your time, and no man you we're "not thinking" when you forgot to offer your number.

It's pretty well known the best way is to get her number, then accuse her of giving you a fake # and call her on the spot :)

yeah you're on your way nice
 

Szyzzlin

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Nice work.. now do the same to every girl you see walking down the street. Guaranteed success!! Eventually you'll get what you want.
 

movistar

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Nice! Once you start doing the approach it gets easier and easier. Approaching the hot chicks is the right way to go, the average chick will seem like child's play.
 

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hey man good job. Keep it up. The more you do the more you learn. I Wouldn't take of the sun glasses because they convey higher status and that's what you want. Had an approach today myself.

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