Got played badly

[Oakley]

Well for the past month and a half I've been talking to a girl who I've known for a little over a year. I've always liked her and she finally said she has feelings for me(so she said), the problem was, she has a boyfriend of 2 years.


I let it go on for way too long... but yesterday I finally told her it was me or him, that was it. She says ok, she's going to break up with him. I'm like ok great. Well I talk to her today and ask her how it went and she says she's happy where she is right now, and she's been lying to me just to keep me talking to her.

I end up yelling at her for 30-45 minutes, I make her cry and she says she's sorry about 20 times. I told her she can't be forgiven for something like this, which makes her cry even harder.

It was beautifully played on her part... she had me completely fooled. Question is... what should I do? Should I push it further? I have a serious case of one-itis, and I'm not really looking to get rid of it.

Thanks guys.

*edit*

Let me add that we've given each other massages and stayed up "all night talking" , and she called me while I was on vacation with my family "just to hear my voice".

But what truly pisses me off is the fact that I know she's out right now fvcking her boyfriend who is a complete douchebag.

 

[NYC Dude]

Forget the slut. She used you and played you, that should be enough reason to get over her and past her. So what if she cried, she made a big mistake trying to fvck with you, and now she'll pay for it.

 

[iMat]

Loved the part how you made her cry...

Thumbs up for that one.

--iMat

 

[Interpol]

These are the WORST TYPES OF GIRLS IN THE WORLD. Don't even consider pursuing it further. She'll only keep fucking you over again and again and again...

 

[Porky]

fvcking *****.

don't feel bad for a second that you made her cry. she earned it. You think she would have felt bad if you hadn't said anything?

 

[AC/DC]

And think how she's treated her current boyfriend, lying behind his back.

She could easily do that to you.

Is that something you want in your life?

I say: HELL NO

 

[-.-]

Sad to see stuff like this happen everywhere in the world. It happened to me. I know pretty much exactly how you feel.

Infact, I started reading on the DJ Bible right after the incident. (Which is a good thing)

Now we see each other at the mall crossing paths, I can see she envies me when she sees me surrounded by 5 or 6 amazing girls.

So take my advice, drop the hoe and play hard.

You see, if you play, you can't really lose. You can get knocked down, but you can still get up.

The only way you can lose is if you stay down

"I have a serious case of one-itis, and I'm not really looking to get rid of it.

^ This is how you can lose. Change the attitude. Best of luck. I know you can do it.