"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Got oneitis over a slut - hellbent on revenge now
- Thread starter Dame94
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Count your blessings and get wise bro.
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That‘s interesting. I‘ll definitely take a look into that. This woman most certainly has some issues. Thanks.
Ignore this horse ****e......
This is simply a convenient way to not take responsibility for anything that's happened and simply conclude that she must be a "insert mental disorder"........
You will never grow if you take this road....
Within thirty minutes of speaking with any person you should be able to tell if that person is one of life's VICTIMS or if that person takes RESPONSIBILITY for their own life experience....
A prominent feature of VICTIMS is that they throw BLAME on to other people. They blame their parents, their teachers, the government, their friends or lack of friends, the bully who was nasty to them, the clerk in the store who was mean to them one day, the football coach, they blame their exes or they blame women/men in general......for the fact that their life IS NOT THEY WAY THEY FEEL IT SHOULD BE (THEY WAY THE FEEL THEY DESERVE IT SHOULD BE). When they blame other people, it gives them a ready made excuse to NOT BOTHER TAKING ACTION in the present moment and NOT PUSHING THROUGH FEAR...........why bother they say? life has screwed them over you see............VICTIMS TALK ABOUT THE PAST A LOT. They go over the past looking for reasons and pointing their finger at people from the past.....WASTING THEIR PRESENT MOMENTS.....
People who take RESPONSIBILITY for the life experiences REFUSE TO BLAME OTHERS because they know doing so, gives the other person a TREMENDOUS AMOUNT OF CONTROL OVER THEM. People who accept responsibility for their life experience know that THEY and THEY ALONE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR HAPPINESS AND WELL BEING.............
..Victims will say "look what that person did to me" (and seek sympathy) whereas responsible people will ask themselves something like "how did I allow that situation to take place?" or "what's life trying to teach me here?"
Victims will have weak, undefined boundaries or they won't express their boundaries and then they will get passive aggressive when someone crosses their boundaries.....
Responsible people will have strong well defined boundaries and will have no problem saying the word "NO"......
Victims moan and complain about things and situation that are OUTSIDE THEIR CIRCLE OF INFLUENCE......responsible people will work diligently INSIDE THEIR CIRCLE OF INFLUENCE eventually making it grow......
We could go on......
The choice is yours: VICTIM OR RESPONSIBLE
Chev.Chelios
Master Don Juan
absolutly brilliant post..
if one can master "victim mentality" and unwire societal conditioning, and heal your past wounds no girl will have power over your well being again
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.