"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Got one-etis with my current girlfriend...can i get over it?

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Yeah, everything she does effects me. I always think about her. It hurts to think that she's not CHASING after me, or having a decent time if i'm not there.

I really like her, and im pretty sure she likes me back. She told me she loved me, although we havn't been talking/seeing eachother as much this past week.

Now, can i learn to get over this one-etis and still be with her. Or should she be dumped purly b/c of my extremy likelyness for her?

She's one of a kind, got a rare rare unique look...and isn't very needy. I never ever show or let her see how much I like her, but it seems like her IL may be decreasing a small amount.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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your beggining to reek insecurity!

you need to relax..seriously..go smoke a blunt if u have too or get drunk and chill!!!

then go at it differently...go do stuff..get her off your mind....be powerful around her..confident and it will be fine!

DONT SABOTAGE YOURSELF!
 
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I got drunk for the past 5 weeks, 5x per week. School starts tomorrow!

I think i'm going to start changing my attitude to trying to attract more girls other then my gf, instead of ONLY caring and thinking about her as if shes the only girl.

I hear the incoming freshmen are goodlooking. :) (i'm a junior)
 
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dude you sound like a comeplete idiot. Im surprised you even have a gf. You need to change your whole out look and attitude in general.

First of all...drinking isnt the answer. Living a productive/meaningful life is the answer. Do the things that make you happy. Focus on your life, not ur stupid gf's life. You need to stop making her the main focus of your happiness.

You really need to toughen up
 
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i AM happy with my life. I got a good family, decent amount of cash, good grades, good friends..i'm somwhat social and goodlooking..i'm lucky. It's just girls in gernal i'm not thrilled with and my relationship is an example. but yah u can ignore this thread. (btw i dont seek drinking for "relief" i do it b/c its just fun, what can i say..)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I can ignore this thread...ok

Kid you are crazy
 
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