"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Got one-etis with my current girlfriend...can i get over it?

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Yeah, everything she does effects me. I always think about her. It hurts to think that she's not CHASING after me, or having a decent time if i'm not there.

I really like her, and im pretty sure she likes me back. She told me she loved me, although we havn't been talking/seeing eachother as much this past week.

Now, can i learn to get over this one-etis and still be with her. Or should she be dumped purly b/c of my extremy likelyness for her?

She's one of a kind, got a rare rare unique look...and isn't very needy. I never ever show or let her see how much I like her, but it seems like her IL may be decreasing a small amount.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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your beggining to reek insecurity!

you need to relax..seriously..go smoke a blunt if u have too or get drunk and chill!!!

then go at it differently...go do stuff..get her off your mind....be powerful around her..confident and it will be fine!

DONT SABOTAGE YOURSELF!
 
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I got drunk for the past 5 weeks, 5x per week. School starts tomorrow!

I think i'm going to start changing my attitude to trying to attract more girls other then my gf, instead of ONLY caring and thinking about her as if shes the only girl.

I hear the incoming freshmen are goodlooking. :) (i'm a junior)
 
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dude you sound like a comeplete idiot. Im surprised you even have a gf. You need to change your whole out look and attitude in general.

First of all...drinking isnt the answer. Living a productive/meaningful life is the answer. Do the things that make you happy. Focus on your life, not ur stupid gf's life. You need to stop making her the main focus of your happiness.

You really need to toughen up
 
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i AM happy with my life. I got a good family, decent amount of cash, good grades, good friends..i'm somwhat social and goodlooking..i'm lucky. It's just girls in gernal i'm not thrilled with and my relationship is an example. but yah u can ignore this thread. (btw i dont seek drinking for "relief" i do it b/c its just fun, what can i say..)
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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I can ignore this thread...ok

Kid you are crazy
 
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