"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Got one-etis with my current girlfriend...can i get over it?

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Yeah, everything she does effects me. I always think about her. It hurts to think that she's not CHASING after me, or having a decent time if i'm not there.

I really like her, and im pretty sure she likes me back. She told me she loved me, although we havn't been talking/seeing eachother as much this past week.

Now, can i learn to get over this one-etis and still be with her. Or should she be dumped purly b/c of my extremy likelyness for her?

She's one of a kind, got a rare rare unique look...and isn't very needy. I never ever show or let her see how much I like her, but it seems like her IL may be decreasing a small amount.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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your beggining to reek insecurity!

you need to relax..seriously..go smoke a blunt if u have too or get drunk and chill!!!

then go at it differently...go do stuff..get her off your mind....be powerful around her..confident and it will be fine!

DONT SABOTAGE YOURSELF!
 
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I got drunk for the past 5 weeks, 5x per week. School starts tomorrow!

I think i'm going to start changing my attitude to trying to attract more girls other then my gf, instead of ONLY caring and thinking about her as if shes the only girl.

I hear the incoming freshmen are goodlooking. :) (i'm a junior)
 
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dude you sound like a comeplete idiot. Im surprised you even have a gf. You need to change your whole out look and attitude in general.

First of all...drinking isnt the answer. Living a productive/meaningful life is the answer. Do the things that make you happy. Focus on your life, not ur stupid gf's life. You need to stop making her the main focus of your happiness.

You really need to toughen up
 
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i AM happy with my life. I got a good family, decent amount of cash, good grades, good friends..i'm somwhat social and goodlooking..i'm lucky. It's just girls in gernal i'm not thrilled with and my relationship is an example. but yah u can ignore this thread. (btw i dont seek drinking for "relief" i do it b/c its just fun, what can i say..)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I can ignore this thread...ok

Kid you are crazy
 
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