I set up something with her on Monday. Wow, at least this time I told her "I'm feeling kind of tired. I work at 8 in the morning tomorrow" she goes ahead and tells me "Do you want to get off the phone?" and I say "I'll give you a call tomorrow,Goodnight, Bye"and we actually got off the phone w/o her getting pissed...lol.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Got off the phone with her and she gets pissed.
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