"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Got numbers NOW, going away for Christmas, how will she remember me when I RETURN?

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I've never had to deal with this before.

This week I got 3 numbers. I'm off on holiday to another country in a couple of days, then have exams when I return.

I won't be able to ask for any dates for about a month. A month!

So what should I do?

I had an idea to ring them near Christmas, just wish them a "Merry Christmas!", but even typing it makes me feel it's completely AFC.

How can I get them to remember me?

Phone call in between? Text messages? (which I really hate to use). What?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No, they don't.

Come on lads, let's have some ideas!
 
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Send them a postcard from your trip... I've done that with girls I'm stringing along - it makes them feel 'special'... One girl actually has a collection of the places I've sent her cards from. Works like a charm.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I do not like texting messages but GIRLS do :D
So keep them excited with SMS. Drop a funny line once in a while.
 
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