"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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got number but dont like the way i got it

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This chick at pizza hut i flirt with at pizza hut. A few months go me and some friends went to pizza hut and they were messing with me by asking her to give her number to me. I didn't know what to say and pause. She then said, "If he want my number, he knows where to find me ;)" Fastfoward to yesturday, and the same thing like a few months ago happen again. But this time I got the number. As we were leaving, I call her over and said whats up. Then i freaking frozee again, then my friends asking her about the number again. She gave it to me and i took it.

I doubt i even call this chick becuase i felt like a punk in the way i got it. Seem like my friends did most of the work, and i looked like the shy guy. Yeah I sometimes go to pizza hut by myself and talk to her. Seem like she has high insterest (long eye contact, smiles, joking and flirting, free food) Right now im talking to 3 chicks. Might as well, try and game the pizza chick. She told me she was off 2 days this week, but im not going to even try and set up a "date" because im not going to have my car this week. I know its good to wait a few days before calling, but is a whole week too long. Maybe i should call this week just for a few mins and then call next week to set up somthing.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BlackDragon said:
This chick at pizza hut i flirt with at pizza hut. A few months go me and some friends went to pizza hut and they were messing with me by asking her to give her number to me. I didn't know what to say and pause. She then said, "If he want my number, he knows where to find me ;)" Fastfoward to yesturday, and the same thing like a few months ago happen again. But this time I got the number. As we were leaving, I call her over and said whats up. Then i freaking frozee again, then my friends asking her about the number again. She gave it to me and i took it.

I doubt i even call this chick becuase i felt like a punk in the way i got it. Seem like my friends did most of the work, and i looked like the shy guy. Yeah I sometimes go to pizza hut by myself and talk to her. Seem like she has high insterest (long eye contact, smiles, joking and flirting, free food) Right now im talking to 3 chicks. Might as well, try and game the pizza chick. She told me she was off 2 days this week, but im not going to even try and set up a "date" because im not going to have my car this week. I know its good to wait a few days before calling, but is a whole week too long. Maybe i should call this week just for a few mins and then call next week to set up somthing.
How many times are you going to mention "Pizza Hut"?
 

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She likes you man!

She gave you her number...she seems intrested...Give it a shot. You got the number ok.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I'm guessing if you were more prepared to talk to her you wouldn't have nearly the anxiety that you do now.

This thread was brought to you by our good friends at Pizza Hut!!!:up:
 

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You got the number and she also threw in that she was off 2 days this week. She wants you to call her. Do it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mr_knowit_all said:
How many times are you going to mention "Pizza Hut"?
haha, does it make you hungry or something?
Blackdragon, remember that old saying " a win is a win". well its a win win situation.
 

Badmannaz

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BlackDragon said:
I doubt i even call this chick becuase i felt like a punk in the way i got it. Seem like my friends did most of the work, and i looked like the shy guy.
U'll really look like an AFC B!tch if you don't call her like the man you are n ask her on a date..it's simple if she gave you her number she wants to call...if your a good enough talker she'll date...if your a good enough dater...she'll want you to make a move...and if your a good enough mover then you'll b good enough to turn on your car ignition leaving her house after a great night :up:

think about it man...n grow a pair!!!;)
 

92 GSR-4

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BlackDragon said:
She told me she was off 2 days this week, but im not going to even try and set up a "date" because im not going to have my car this week. I know its good to wait a few days before calling, but is a whole week too long.
Hey BlackDragon. Well here a few things I thought of when I read your post.

1) Hot damn! You got this girls number and didn't even lift a finger to get it. Your friends were probably trying to embarass you by doing that, and guess what? She freakin likes you and took that opportunity to give it to you, in hopes of something happening between you! She is picking YOU up, take that advantage and run with it!

2) Yes..usually you want to wait a few days to call her..but $hit this has been going on for months between you. She has 2 days off. Even it off by calling her but making it really short..like:

You: Hey <name> I'm pretty busy, but I wanted to see what days your off?
Her: blah blah blah <wednesday & thursday> blah blah blah
you: Ok well lets meet up at <place> and talk for a while, cool?
Her: YES!!!! FINALLY!!!!
You: Ok, see ya there bye.

3) GET A FREAKIN CAR TO DRIVE! It doesn't have to be nice, because she is MEETING you somewhere, right? She's not riding tonight big boy. You have friends/family..use them! Get a car.

Let us know how it goes!


Hey Badmannaz, before you go criticizing everyone else, work on your grammar. I can't understand half the stuff you wrote.. What the hell does this mean?
Badmannaz said:
and if your a good enough mover then you'll b good enough to turn on your car ignition leaving her house after a great night

Dude, get a life.
 

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lol yeh i agree with 92 GSR-4 on number one she does like u and wants u to call her so do it, stop being lazy! and dont even worry about the car, uve got legs and there are buses althru u might not want to use the bus... but walking is cool or mayb she has a car get her to pick u up i meen she pretty much did with the number anyways
 

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AFter reading that I'm hungry for something that is circular yet triangular at the same time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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will it be ok if i call a week after? Ofcouse it dosen't matter, its not like she is going to forget who I am. I would call and set up a date but i already have things plan with another girl for the weekend. Is it cool to set up dates for next week?
 

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Whatever you do don't totally next her,even if she ljbfs you,you said about free food,FREE FOOD MAN! :D
 

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Hey man, since you got the PIZZA HUT hook up, I want some free shyt!!! You know what? You might have gotten the digits in a punk-like way, but you still have the phone number!!!! Now, it is time to turn that punk like attitude into a confident attitude. DON'T BLOW IT! The hard part in my opinion is over, time to shine.
 

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Try this when you want a number:
"Hey give me your number. I like you and I want to see you again."
Be honest and don't ask for approval. Even put your mobil in her hand...

Re-assure her through a nice smile that it's the right thing to do.

Show your interest and she'll know what's happening and that way she won't just be just a number in your agenda and be someone you will get to have some nice time with...
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I'm guessing if you were more prepared to talk to her you wouldn't have nearly the anxiety that you do now.

This thread was brought to you by our good friends at Pizza Hut!!!:up:
ahhhhh yeaaaup, I want sum.........

On a more serious note, I believe that she wants to **** you already, she gave you the number now finish the natural process, the woman did her part now its time for you to do yours... refer to my advice, its a gift buddy :up:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=106654
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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