"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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got number but dont like the way i got it

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This chick at pizza hut i flirt with at pizza hut. A few months go me and some friends went to pizza hut and they were messing with me by asking her to give her number to me. I didn't know what to say and pause. She then said, "If he want my number, he knows where to find me ;)" Fastfoward to yesturday, and the same thing like a few months ago happen again. But this time I got the number. As we were leaving, I call her over and said whats up. Then i freaking frozee again, then my friends asking her about the number again. She gave it to me and i took it.

I doubt i even call this chick becuase i felt like a punk in the way i got it. Seem like my friends did most of the work, and i looked like the shy guy. Yeah I sometimes go to pizza hut by myself and talk to her. Seem like she has high insterest (long eye contact, smiles, joking and flirting, free food) Right now im talking to 3 chicks. Might as well, try and game the pizza chick. She told me she was off 2 days this week, but im not going to even try and set up a "date" because im not going to have my car this week. I know its good to wait a few days before calling, but is a whole week too long. Maybe i should call this week just for a few mins and then call next week to set up somthing.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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BlackDragon said:
This chick at pizza hut i flirt with at pizza hut. A few months go me and some friends went to pizza hut and they were messing with me by asking her to give her number to me. I didn't know what to say and pause. She then said, "If he want my number, he knows where to find me ;)" Fastfoward to yesturday, and the same thing like a few months ago happen again. But this time I got the number. As we were leaving, I call her over and said whats up. Then i freaking frozee again, then my friends asking her about the number again. She gave it to me and i took it.

I doubt i even call this chick becuase i felt like a punk in the way i got it. Seem like my friends did most of the work, and i looked like the shy guy. Yeah I sometimes go to pizza hut by myself and talk to her. Seem like she has high insterest (long eye contact, smiles, joking and flirting, free food) Right now im talking to 3 chicks. Might as well, try and game the pizza chick. She told me she was off 2 days this week, but im not going to even try and set up a "date" because im not going to have my car this week. I know its good to wait a few days before calling, but is a whole week too long. Maybe i should call this week just for a few mins and then call next week to set up somthing.
How many times are you going to mention "Pizza Hut"?
 

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She likes you man!

She gave you her number...she seems intrested...Give it a shot. You got the number ok.
 

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I'm guessing if you were more prepared to talk to her you wouldn't have nearly the anxiety that you do now.

This thread was brought to you by our good friends at Pizza Hut!!!:up:
 

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You got the number and she also threw in that she was off 2 days this week. She wants you to call her. Do it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mr_knowit_all said:
How many times are you going to mention "Pizza Hut"?
haha, does it make you hungry or something?
Blackdragon, remember that old saying " a win is a win". well its a win win situation.
 

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BlackDragon said:
I doubt i even call this chick becuase i felt like a punk in the way i got it. Seem like my friends did most of the work, and i looked like the shy guy.
U'll really look like an AFC B!tch if you don't call her like the man you are n ask her on a date..it's simple if she gave you her number she wants to call...if your a good enough talker she'll date...if your a good enough dater...she'll want you to make a move...and if your a good enough mover then you'll b good enough to turn on your car ignition leaving her house after a great night :up:

think about it man...n grow a pair!!!;)
 

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BlackDragon said:
She told me she was off 2 days this week, but im not going to even try and set up a "date" because im not going to have my car this week. I know its good to wait a few days before calling, but is a whole week too long.
Hey BlackDragon. Well here a few things I thought of when I read your post.

1) Hot damn! You got this girls number and didn't even lift a finger to get it. Your friends were probably trying to embarass you by doing that, and guess what? She freakin likes you and took that opportunity to give it to you, in hopes of something happening between you! She is picking YOU up, take that advantage and run with it!

2) Yes..usually you want to wait a few days to call her..but $hit this has been going on for months between you. She has 2 days off. Even it off by calling her but making it really short..like:

You: Hey <name> I'm pretty busy, but I wanted to see what days your off?
Her: blah blah blah <wednesday & thursday> blah blah blah
you: Ok well lets meet up at <place> and talk for a while, cool?
Her: YES!!!! FINALLY!!!!
You: Ok, see ya there bye.

3) GET A FREAKIN CAR TO DRIVE! It doesn't have to be nice, because she is MEETING you somewhere, right? She's not riding tonight big boy. You have friends/family..use them! Get a car.

Let us know how it goes!


Hey Badmannaz, before you go criticizing everyone else, work on your grammar. I can't understand half the stuff you wrote.. What the hell does this mean?
Badmannaz said:
and if your a good enough mover then you'll b good enough to turn on your car ignition leaving her house after a great night

Dude, get a life.
 

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lol yeh i agree with 92 GSR-4 on number one she does like u and wants u to call her so do it, stop being lazy! and dont even worry about the car, uve got legs and there are buses althru u might not want to use the bus... but walking is cool or mayb she has a car get her to pick u up i meen she pretty much did with the number anyways
 

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AFter reading that I'm hungry for something that is circular yet triangular at the same time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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will it be ok if i call a week after? Ofcouse it dosen't matter, its not like she is going to forget who I am. I would call and set up a date but i already have things plan with another girl for the weekend. Is it cool to set up dates for next week?
 

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Whatever you do don't totally next her,even if she ljbfs you,you said about free food,FREE FOOD MAN! :D
 

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Hey man, since you got the PIZZA HUT hook up, I want some free shyt!!! You know what? You might have gotten the digits in a punk-like way, but you still have the phone number!!!! Now, it is time to turn that punk like attitude into a confident attitude. DON'T BLOW IT! The hard part in my opinion is over, time to shine.
 

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Try this when you want a number:
"Hey give me your number. I like you and I want to see you again."
Be honest and don't ask for approval. Even put your mobil in her hand...

Re-assure her through a nice smile that it's the right thing to do.

Show your interest and she'll know what's happening and that way she won't just be just a number in your agenda and be someone you will get to have some nice time with...
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I'm guessing if you were more prepared to talk to her you wouldn't have nearly the anxiety that you do now.

This thread was brought to you by our good friends at Pizza Hut!!!:up:
ahhhhh yeaaaup, I want sum.........

On a more serious note, I believe that she wants to **** you already, she gave you the number now finish the natural process, the woman did her part now its time for you to do yours... refer to my advice, its a gift buddy :up:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=106654
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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