Got nexted because of my age...

[ThunderMaverick]

Not quite what I was talking about but thanks for the offer - I'm flattered.

Ok you DID realize you misspelled "body"...right?

 

[Adam007]

Go An Have Some Fun Bro....

 

[mzilla2]

LOL, when a chick tries to bust my balls about my age, I tell 'em to guess, and after a few tries at my age or younger usually, with a big sh!t eating grin I say "Wow, thanks, considering I'm 54!"

 

[MacAvoy]

I told them how old I was, then asked how old they were. She said "21" and her friend said "19". My eyes got real wide and I said, "HOLY SH1T! We aren't going to get arrested for talking to you, ARE WE????"

By turning the tables and making it look like I thought she was REALLY young it diffused her thoughts of me being "old" and in effect made it to where SHE had to qualify herself to me instead of the other way around.

This is a great way to do it, Awesome stuff Str8up

 

[Mr. Wise]

Ok you DID realize you misspelled "body"...right?

Um no... I really meant "BALDY" as in smooth down there. :crackup:

Whenever I think of her, that's what comes to my mind, oddly enough - SEXY LEGS INCLUDING WHAT'S BETWEEN THEM. This is the chick that put me into major AFC-ness a while back so I need to approach her with major confidence. However back then I had an autoimmune desease called alopecia areata (not life threatening at all) in which a patch of hair fell out in the front of my scalp so I had to shave it. Even then, it still looked funny. Needless to say my confidence dropped dramatically and appeared very wussy to her and got dropped. My confidence today is ten fold minimum from that day so GAME ON B!TCH.

 

[MikeYikes122]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=94860&highlight=younger+women

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=123807&highlight=younger+women

The first thread is the perfect example of the FOOL PROOF way to diffuse the age issue and use it to your advantage. The second thread is what happens when you forget to use it.

When I was younger, I used to turn the tables on older chics like that. When I was in my early 20s I used to meet a lot of girls who were in their mid- or late-20s at my work. They'd usually tell me I was too young or that I looked too young. My response was: "What's the matter? Don't think you can keep up with me?"

I didn't realize this till now, but I think that's a similar dynamic to what you do with younger girls.

As for the OP, I wouldn't stress on missing out on a 21-year-old. I still date them and like Joeker said they usually don't bring much to the table.

 

[Mr. Wise]

As for the OP, I wouldn't stress on missing out on a 21-year-old. I still date them and like Joeker said they usually don't bring much to the table.

Well, I still date them but this one brings some tight curves to the table big time dude. I was bummed to get sold out like that - fvckin' jealous blockers.

 

[STR8UP]

The only bad thing about women under 25 is that they haven't gone through "that time" of their life. Everyone goes through it around their mid 20's, where you just start to wake up and realize what's going on around you.

I absolutely LOVE showing younger chicks new places and things, and I tend to get along with them quite well as long as they have some maturity, but no matter how mature they are there is just no substitute for the wisdom that comes from age.

I'm pretty much resolved to the fact that I can't have a serious relationship with a woman that age. Tried it with my last g/f against my better judgment, and although it was a great two years, there was just no way it could have worked out in the long run.

That said, older men should never be afraid to date younger women. you'll catch plenty of flack from jealous haters (older women) and men who just don't get it, but who the F cares?

 

[Mr. Wise]

The only bad thing about women under 25 is that they haven't gone through "that time" of their life. Everyone goes through it around their mid 20's, where you just start to wake up and realize what's going on around you.

I absolutely LOVE showing younger chicks new places and things, and I tend to get along with them quite well as long as they have some maturity, but no matter how mature they are there is just no substitute for the wisdom that comes from age.

I'm pretty much resolved to the fact that I can't have a serious relationship with a woman that age. Tried it with my last g/f against my better judgment, and although it was a great two years, there was just no way it could have worked out in the long run.

That said, older men should never be afraid to date younger women. you'll catch plenty of flack from jealous haters (older women) and men who just don't get it, but who the F cares?

You're very correct in all of the above.

In this case though, she was all looks and I had no intention of a serious relationship anyway. I just wanted to hijack the poodie. Blockers man, they ought to be shot - this dude had no chance with her. This pretty much rules out hooking up with her friends too. This sh!t spreads like cancer and the alpha female has the info - her opinion is gold in the group.

I'm not afraid to date younger women at all, in fact, I prefer them.

 

[steve38]

When I was early 30's, it was no problem telling any girl in a bar how old I was. But soon I will be 39 and even my 33 year old lady friend told me that sounds old. So I've come to the conclusion that I'm going to have to start lying. I still get attention from girls in their mid 20's and busting out a "I'm 39" will usually put a damper on that. If it is just a ONS, she is probably lying about lots of things too. All's fair in love and war!

 

[st_99]

21 year olds dont bring much to the table, so its not like you lost out other than getting laid.

So true.


BTW, a few months ago I was at a bar where college age kids hung out and most if not all girls were in the 21 - 23 bracket. An obvious ONS was brewing with this 22 yo when she asked me how old I was....

Yeah, I just lied and told her 25 as not to freak her out if she heard 30 something.


ONS was on and that was that.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

I don't see a problem lying about age I may get a fake ID that says I'm 23.

 

[ketostix]

So true.


BTW, a few months ago I was at a bar where college age kids hung out and most if not all girls were in the 21 - 23 bracket. An obvious ONS was brewing with this 22 yo when she asked me how old I was....

Yeah, I just lied and told her 25 as not to freak her out if she heard 30 something.


ONS was on and that was that.

I see someone also ascribes to my advice to just lie and it worked out just fine. Wow you told her 25? You must be a young looking 32 year old.

 

[STR8UP]

Although I don't have any problem with lying (women do it all the time with stuff like this), i don't see any need to do so, when you can turn it around and use it to your advantage.

Ok, so you are "age compatible" in her eyes. Wouldn't it be better for her to feel as if she's not MATURE enough for you??

The 20 year old I hooked up with awhile back (she's now 22) told me recently that she always felt she wasn't good enough, because I was dating an older woman right after we hooked up. I used to bust on her all the time telling her she's "just a baby". She would get "pissed" and say "I'm not a BABY...I'm a GROWN ASS WOMAN!"

Three choices.

1) Avoid the question and come off as insecure and get shot down.

2) Lie about your age and at least get your foot in the door for an audition.

OR

3) Turn it right around on her and make her think she has to prove her maturity to an older, more experienced man.

I'll stick with my M.O. thanks

 

[My Name is Nobody]

I got her to seek my approval last night.. I told her she is "so immature" and she started debating me about how mature she is for her age. Worked like a charm.